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Most people say ‘sorry’ or ‘I’m sorry’ far too often. You’re probably aware of whether this is an issue for you. If you struggle with frequent apologizing, you may need to take a different approach to find ways to express what you really mean. The Art of Apology Series - https://submissiveguide.com/articles/series/the-art-of-apology/ On Patreon, you will support positive BDSM education for today and the future. You'll get early access to all of our newest educational content. We’ll give you sneak peeks and behind-the-scenes work for special projects and books in development. We'll continue the conversation in the comments section and private chat on our Discord server. No matter where you are on your journey, we'll be there to support you. ►http://patreon.com/subguide Thank you for the continued support on Patreon, which helps make improvements like this possible. _____ Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere? ►Site: https://www.submissiveguide.com ►Podcast: https://subgui.de/podcast ►X/Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/subguide ►Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/subguide ►FetLife: https://subgui.de/fetlife ►YouTube: https://subgui.de/youtube ►Patreon: https://patreon.com/subguide ►Substack: https://subguide.substack.com Check Out Our Books! ►https://shop.submissiveguide.com
[Podcast] Breaking the Apology Habit: Alternatives to Overusing ‘I’m Sorry’
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[Audio] Some of the Best Kept Secrets to Sub Drop Recovery | Submissive Guide
We’ll cover the complexities of online submission, offering various safe environments to explore and learn the nuances of BDSM and discuss the potential benefits and dangers. We’ll help you navigate the online BDSM landscape with confidence and care. https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/the-realities-of-online-submission Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today. ►http://subgui.de/society We're stepping up our filming quality at Submissive Guide for you! Thank you for the continued support on Patreon, which helps make improvements like this possible. A very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you. _____ Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere? ►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com ►Podcast: http://subgui.de/podcast ►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide ►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide ►FetLife: http://subgui.de/fetlife ►YouTube: http://subgui.de/youtube ►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society Check Out My Books! ►https://www.submissiveguide.com/store
[Audio] Exploring Online Submission Truths Risks and Safety Tips | Submissive Guide
Description: A question I see asked all the time is, "How can I be a better submissive?" Here are a few things you can do to improve your submission and service without much work. Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today. ►http://subgui.de/society A very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you. _____ Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere? ►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com ►Podcast: http://subgui.de/podcast ►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide ►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide ►FetLife: http://subgui.de/fetlife ►YouTube: http://subgui.de/youtube ►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society Check Out My Books! ►https://www.submissiveguide.com/store
[Audio] 10 Things You Can Start Today To Be a Better Submissive | Submissive Guide
Let's discuss how to build healthy communication skills in our D/s relationship and what a safe environment for difficult conversations looks like. I’ll give you the tools to develop a report with your partner that is full of trust, shared vulnerability, and compassion. You’ll learn that a safe environment for those challenging talks requires planning and mutual agreements to work as they should. Resources: Conversation Starters for Difficult Conversations: https://www.wikihow.com/images/sampledocs/f/Conversation-Starters-for-Difficult-Conversations.pdf Kink Friendly Therapists: - Psychology Today - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/sex-positive-kink-allied - Kink Friendly Therapy - http://kinkfriendlytherapy.com/resources-3/resources/ - Kink Aware Professionals Directory - https://www.kapprofessionals.org/ Domestic Abuse Hotlines: US: https://www.thehotline.org/ UK: https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ EU: https://www.improve-horizon.eu/helplines A very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you. _____ Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere? ►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com ►Podcast: http://subgui.de/podcast ►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide ►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide ►FetLife: http://subgui.de/fetlife ►YouTube: http://subgui.de/youtube ►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society Check Out My Books! ►https://www.submissiveguide.com/store
[Audio] Creating a Safe Space: Enhancing Communication in D/s Relationships | Submissive Guide
Join us at 8 PM CST (UTC-5) on June 21, 2024, in the Submissive Forum voice chat on our Discord server for our Submissive Forum. Topic: Play Negotiation The Submissive Forum is open to all who identify as an s-type role, including switches with your sub hat on. The forum will present a topic for discussion and then be open to any questions and discussions about submission. To join our Discord server, just click this link: http://subgui.de/chat How to connect to an Age-Restricted Discord server from an Apple device: https://support.discord.com/hc/en-us/articles/1500005292701-Accessing-an-NSFW-Server-FAQ As with all of our Forums, this is a sacred space that is non-judgmental and confidential. Let's all offer each other support and guidance in a safe environment. To encourage a safe space for our attendees, no Dominants are permitted. Our Discord server is open to everyone 18 years of age and older. Make sure you sign up before the forum to test our server and your headset before we start. If you run into any problems, contact a server admin for assistance. Just click this link to join our Discord server: http://subgui.de/chat **Want to learn more?** Since 2009, Submissive Guide's mission has been to provide down-to-earth educational BDSM content that can really help people learn and explore kink and D/s relationships in a healthy way. That is our continued goal. http://submissiveguide.com **Able to Help Support Submissive Guide?** The generous pledges from members through our Patreon page help us provide current and future education opportunities for our community online. Please click here to join The Submissive Society: http://subgui.de/society _____ Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere? ►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com ►Podcast: http://subgui.de/podcast ►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide ►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide ►FetLife: http://subgui.de/fetlife ►YouTube: http://subgui.de/youtube ►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society Check Out My Books! ►https://www.submissiveguide.com/store
Join Us! Submissive Forum June 21 – Play Negotiation
Often, we discover our desire to be submissive or kinky when we are already in a relationship and are not sure really how to proceed with that. Let’s cover what you should do to prepare to talk to your partner about your newfound interest, how you can encourage a submissive mindset on your own, and how you can slowly bring kink into the bedroom. Initiating a Discussion about BDSM with Your Partner: ►Initiating a Discussion about BDSM Interest with Your Partner - ted_subby - Part 1 of a 3-part series. Highly recommended. - http://www.submissiveguide.com/2012/03/initiating-a-discussion-about-bdsm-interest-with-a-vanilla-partner/ ►Ask SehAnru | Communicating Kinky Needs to a Vanilla Partner - SehAnru - http://www.submissiveguide.com/2011/09/communicating-kinky-needs-to-a-vanilla-partner/ ►Establishing a Safe, Trusting Environment for Talk - lunaKM - http://www.submissiveguide.com/2011/05/establishing-a-safe-trusting-environment-for-talk/ Resources: ►Recommended Reading Lists - https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/the-top-3-books-i-recommend-to-everyone-new-to-bdsm ►Creating a Personal Submissive Protocol - https://submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/creating-a-personal-protocol Join our Discord Server - https://subgui.de/chat Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today. ►http://subgui.de/society A very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you. _____ Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere? ►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com ►Podcast: http://subgui.de/podcast ►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide ►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide ►FetLife: http://subgui.de/fetlife ►YouTube: http://subgui.de/youtube ►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society Check Out My Books! ►https://www.submissiveguide.com/store
[Audio] Navigating the Challenges of a Vanilla Partner in a Kink World | Submissive Guide
Receiving your collar is a special occasion for many submissives and slaves. When a collar comes into view, some people want to commemorate that with a ceremony. Let’s discuss collars, their symbolism in D/s and M/s relationships, and how you can build a formal ceremony around declaring your commitment to each other. See the article for related reference material mentioned in the podcast. Article: https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/how-to-plan-a-formal-collaring-ceremony Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today. ►http://subgui.de/society A very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you. _____ Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere? ►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com ►Podcast: http://subgui.de/podcast ►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide ►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide ►FetLife: http://subgui.de/fetlife ►YouTube: http://subgui.de/youtube ►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society Check Out My Books! ►https://www.submissiveguide.com/store
[Audio] Crafting Your Collaring Ceremony: Themes, Rituals, and Celebrations | Submissive Guide
Let’s break down what topping from the bottom is, why it’s so bad, how it can be good, and learn some tricks to stop the poor behavior in its tracks that leads to it. Read the article: https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/why-you-should-know-the-truth-about-topping-from-the-bottom Chat with the Discord community! https://subgui.de/chat Resources: Arcane Advice article on Topping from the Bottom: https://arcaneadvice.com/all-lessons-a-z/topping-from-the-bottom-why-its-bad-and-when-its-good/ Resistance Play: https://www.kinkly.com/definition/810/resistance-play Healthy Communication Skills on Submissive Guide: https://submissiveguide.com/search?query=healthy+communication A very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you. _____ Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere? ►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com ►Podcast: http://subgui.de/podcast ►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide ►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide ►FetLife: http://subgui.de/fetlife ►YouTube: http://subgui.de/youtube ►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society Check Out My Books! ►https://www.submissiveguide.com/store
[Audio] The Truth About Topping from the Bottom | Submissive Guide
Communication is a key topic to developing and maintaining healthy, open relationships. But many of us need to learn what good communication looks like and have problems with at least one part of good communication techniques. Read the article: https://submissiveguide.com/communication/articles/every-good-conversation-starts-with-good-listening ►http://subgui.de/society A very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you. _____ Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere? ►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com ►Podcast: http://subgui.de/podcast ►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide ►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide ►FetLife: http://subgui.de/fetlife ►YouTube: http://subgui.de/youtube ►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society Check Out My Books! ►https://www.submissiveguide.com/store
[Audio] Every Good Conversation Starts with Active Listening | Submissive Guide
One of the best skills a submissive can learn is observation. Observation can also be neglected in your daily and work life, so learning requires you to reteach your mind, eyes, focus, and attention. It's so worth it. Read the article: https://submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/learning-good-observation-skills Further Reading: Anticipatory Service - https://submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/my-first-anticipatory-service-and-3-lessons-i Personality and Behavior Tests: Meyers-Briggs Type Indicator - https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test The Big Five - https://www.simplypsychology.org/big-five-personality.html Predictive Index - https://www.predictivesuccess.com/the-predictive-index/behavioural-assessment/ Strengths Finder - https://www.gallup.com/cliftonstrengths/en/253850/cliftonstrengths-for-individuals.aspx We're stepping up our filming quality at Submissive Guide for you! Thank you for the continued support on Patreon, which helps make improvements like this possible. A very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you. _____ Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere? ►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com ►Podcast: http://subgui.de/podcast ►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide ►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide ►FetLife: http://subgui.de/fetlife ►YouTube: http://subgui.de/youtube ►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society Check Out My Books! ►https://www.submissiveguide.com/store
[Audio] Learning Good Observation Skills | Submissive Guide
Your limits are unique to you and may change over time as you gain experience and self-awareness. Embrace the opportunity for self-discovery and pleasure as you unlock the secrets to understanding and embracing your BDSM limits. Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/what-everyone-ought-to-know-about-finding-and-managing-limits Further Reading: BDSM Limits Explained - https://domsubliving.com/bdsm-limits-learn-whats-hard-soft/ Using Checklists to Figure Out Your Kinky Limits - https://kaylalords.com/2016/11/using-checklists-to-figure-out-your-kinky-limits/ Establishing Boundaries & Limits in BDSM - https://kynk101.com/kink-bdsm-facts/establishing-boundaries-limits Novices and Newbies Group on FetLife - https://fetlife.com/groups/347 The Submissive Society gets early access to this video, the companion article, the podcast on this topic, and select tiers get exclusive bonuses and a monthly live stream. Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today. ►http://subgui.de/society A very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you. _____ Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere? ►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com ►Podcast: http://subgui.de/podcast ►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide ►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide ►FetLife: http://subgui.de/fetlife ►YouTube: http://subgui.de/youtube ►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society Check Out My Books! ►https://www.submissiveguide.com/store
What Everyone Ought To Know About Finding and Managing Limits | Submissive Guide
Explore the journey of embracing dirty talk. With practical tips, personal stories, and valuable resources, readers are encouraged to break free from inhibitions and discover the liberating potential of vocalizing desires and fantasies. Read the article: https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/how-to-talk-dirty Further Reading: ►How to Be Responsive During Play - https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/how-to-be-responsive-during-play-without-being-demanding ►Exhibitionism for the Shy: Show Off, Dress Up and Talk Hot! by Carol Queen - http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0940208350?ie=utf8&tag=submissiveguide-20&linkcode=as2&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeasin=0940208350 ►Sex Talk: Uncensored Exercises for Exploring What Really Turns You On by Lauren Dockett - http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1572242868/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=utf8&tag=submissiveguide-20&linkcode=as2&camp=217145&creative=399349&creativeasin=1572242868 ►The Dirty Slang Dictionary - http://www.scribd.com/full/16522424?access_key=key-1wefu7ggqvyfsrdx3sba New Guide on Anal Play - OUT NOW! https://subgui.de/analplay ►http://subgui.de/society We're stepping up our filming quality at Submissive Guide for you! Thank you for the continued support on Patreon, which helps make improvements like this possible. A very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you. _____ Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere? ►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com ►Podcast: http://subgui.de/podcast ►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide ►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide ►FetLife: http://subgui.de/fetlife ►YouTube: http://subgui.de/youtube ►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society Check Out My Books! ►https://www.submissiveguide.com/store
Moans, Groans, and Beyond: A Beginner’s Guide to Dirty Talk | Submissive Guide
A beginner's guide that explores the practice of orgasm control and its potential for enhancing pleasure. The first in the series, this article covers the first steps to exploring orgasm control in your play. Resources on Orgasm Control Mechanics: * Orgasm Control by Rover - http://www.seekers.org.uk/orgasm%20control.htm * Orgasm Control Conditioning of Females on FetLife - https://fetlife.com/groups/575 * Train Your Body to Orgasm on Command - http://www.bdsmtrainingacademy.com/train-your-body-to-orgasm-on-command/ * Orgasm Control Training: They Can’t Resist - https://bdsmtrainingacademy.com/orgasm-control-training-they-cant-resist/ * Orgasm Control by gina - https://www.the-iron-gate.com/essays/310 Study: Women's Attributions Regarding Why They Have Difficulty Reaching Orgasm - https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/29298126 Book: The Elusive Orgasm: A Woman's Guide to Why She Can't and How She Can Orgasm" by Vivienne Cass, Ph.D - https://amzn.to/3qUmnNk Part 2 of the Orgasm Control Training Series: https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/orgasm-on-command-training-the-process-for-the-submissive Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today. ►http://subgui.de/society A very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you. _____ Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere? ►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com ►Podcast: http://subgui.de/podcast ►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide ►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide ►FetLife: http://subgui.de/fetlife ►YouTube: http://subgui.de/youtube ►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society Check Out My Books! ►https://www.submissiveguide.com/store
[Audio] On-Demand Ecstasy: Initiating Your Orgasm Control Training | Submissive Guide Podcast
In D/s (Dominant/submissive) relationships, rules are often used to provide structure and establish boundaries within the power exchange dynamic. These rules serve as a guide for submissives to follow, which allows us to focus on our submission and the expectations of our Dominant partner. Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/structure-rules ►http://subgui.de/society A very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you. _____ Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere? ►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com ►Podcast: http://subgui.de/podcast ►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide ►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide ►FetLife: http://subgui.de/fetlife ►YouTube: http://subgui.de/youtube ►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society Check Out My Books! ►https://www.submissiveguide.com/store
[Audio] Importance of Rules and Structure in Ds Relationships | Submissive Guide
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