DIY Your Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner. I know it’s still the beginning of January, but we all know how fast time flies and before we know it, February will be here and that’s when the clock really starts ticking. So, it’s never too early to plan ahead (says the girl who was finished with

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5 Ways Rituals Enhance Your Relationship with Yourself and Your Dynamic

Rituals aren’t just for 24/7 dynamics—they can enrich any D/s relationship. Explore five practical ways rituals enhance submission, deepen intimacy, and strengthen your connection with your Dominant. This guide helps you integrate meaningful practices into your life, whether you’re long-distance, online, or living together.

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Death, Grief, and D/s: How to Help Your Dominant During a Time of Sadness

Grief touches every relationship, including D/s. When a Dominant suffers loss, submissives may wonder how to help while honoring their role. This article shares personal experience and practical lessons on supporting a grieving partner with compassion, patience, and strength—reminding us that D/s dynamics adapt, but love and care remain constant.

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You Can’t Be Little All the Time: Learning Appropriate Public Behavior as a Little

I have a dear friend in my local lifestyle. She’s the owner of a private BDSM dungeon. She’s a master (she doesn’t like the term ‘mistress’) with a devoted slave. She trains and mentors submissives. She bottoms with people she trusts. She’s also a professional FemDom with clients who meet with her on a weekly

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Transformed: How Power Exchange Changed Us For The Better

When I first accepted BDSM into my life, it was like opening a hidden door to my soul and walking through it. That destination, that place of arrival, had nothing to do with sex. (Well, maybe the tiniest bit.) My marriage was dying. It was my second marriage (quite the accomplishment for being in my mid-twenties) and the first

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M/s and When Life Happens: Dealing With Health Challenges and Death

When we imagine an ideal world, it’s pretty safe to say that for most of us, that perfect world wouldn’t include illness, disabilities, and death. Everyone would have bodies that are strong, capable, and able to do any and all activities the heart desires. On this side of creation, that type of world doesn’t exist,

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