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Your submissive journey is also a path to self-discovery. In this category, you’ll find resources and reflections to help you grow emotionally, mentally and spiritually.

31 Days of Submissive Journaling – Day 4: What Can a Journal Do for My Submissive Development?

This entry is part 4 of 31 in the series 31 Days of Submissive Journaling

There once was a time when I believed that writing about my feelings was the only way I could honestly express what I felt in my heart. Throughout high school I wrote what I can only describe as teen angst poetry. Little did I know that I would learn more about myself in that writing […]

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31 Days of Submissive Journaling – Day 3: What is a Submissive Journal?

This entry is part 3 of 31 in the series 31 Days of Submissive Journaling

When you are trying to understand something related to submission, BDSM or your relationship, a submissive journal is a great place to get it all sorted out. While it may not actually solve your problem or answer your question, the simple use of the journal is one of the best tools in your submissive arsenal.

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31 Days of Submissive Journaling – Day 2: What Would You Like to Learn?

This entry is part 2 of 31 in the series 31 Days of Submissive Journaling

After yesterday’s introduction, I am really excited to share my thoughts with you on journaling and how it can help you (even if it’s never seen by anyone but you).  Before we get going tomorrow I wanted to find out from you what you’d like to see me talk about in the coming month. So,

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31 Days of Submissive Journaling – Day 1: Introduction

This entry is part 1 of 31 in the series 31 Days of Submissive Journaling

Many people come to this site searching for ways to improve their submission, communicate with their Dominant and explore different aspects of the D/s and BDSM lifestyles. Each day in October I will be writing a post focusing on journaling your submissive experience; from how to start, its purpose and how to use it for

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Words as Motivation – Submissive Meditation Monday

This entry is part 3 of 19 in the series Submissive Meditation Monday

I’m devoting this Monday to meditation, reflection and devotion to  submission. I hope to select  topics that will get you thinking differently about some part of your life or  submission and then just maybe grow a little bit further. If you have ideas for  topics that might work for a Meditation Monday,  please email me. Three months ago I encountered a

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Taking a Break – Submissive Meditation Monday

This entry is part 4 of 19 in the series Submissive Meditation Monday

I’m devoting this Monday to meditation, reflection and devotion to  submission. I hope to select  topics that will get you thinking differently about some part of your life or  submission and then just maybe grow a little bit further. If you have ideas for  topics that might work for a Meditation Monday,  please email me. Recently I’ve encountered a few questions

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Fear in Submission

I don’t know what it is, or why, but recently, I’ve been seeing a lot about fear. In a regular email newsletter I get, I came across a quote by Jack Canfield “Everything you want is on the other side of fear.” and seeing that hit me like a ton of bricks. Then, a few

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Submissive vs. Slave

This entry is part 21 of 30 in the series Novice Submissives Start Here

This is a guest post by  Mistress Steel. It was part of her Steel’s Chamber Scrolls which is now defunct. Shared with Permission. This distinction appears muddled, misunderstood and generalized by a great number of the people who I converse with. First I would like to make a point. Language at it’s best shifts from area

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Extra Sensitive to Pain: What Can I Do To Regain the Pleasure I Used To Have?

This entry is part 8 of 23 in the series Pain Processing

So lately I seem to be extra sensitive to pain, and by lately I mean the last several months. I’m worried that I’ve lost my ability to enjoy and endure pain. Is there something I can do to de-sensitize myself. I like pain and miss it!! Sincerely, I Miss Being a Pain Slut! Hey there, Pain

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How Often Have You Said: “I Don’t Know What’s Expected of Me, But I’d Like To”?

This entry is part 14 of 30 in the series Novice Submissives Start Here

What ARE you expected to do and know as a submissive? Well, for many who are just starting out, the answer really is not much. But that’s not the kind of answer you accept out of me, right? There’s more to it, isn’t there? Of course there always is, but you have to begin somewhere

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Your Label – Submissive Meditation Monday

This entry is part 8 of 19 in the series Submissive Meditation Monday

I’m devoting this Monday to meditation, reflection and devotion to submission. I hope to select  topics that will get you thinking differently about some part of your life or submission and then just maybe grow a little bit further. If you have ideas for  topics that might work for a Meditation Monday,  please email me. I want you

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