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Kink Fundamentals

From understanding basic kink concepts to exploring various fetishes, this category is your starting point for building a solid foundation in the world of BDSM.

The Question of Aftercare: What is It, Do You Need It and How to Ask For It (And Get It)

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Aftercare is an elusive beast. Sometimes I need it and sometimes I’d rather be left alone. I’m never very sure which mood I’ll be in when we begin playing but aftercare is always on standby because I take what happens in scene very hard. It goes with my very emotional self. What exactly is aftercare? Reading some […]

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What Is BDSM All About?

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This entry is part 3 of 19 in the series New to BDSM? Start Here

It’s been awhile since I’ve done a refresher on the basics of BDSM. If you are just finding this site, I hope that the wealth of information you see will help you understand yourself and the world in which you are curious. For novices, the word BDSM is a huge scary word. For the experienced,

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But My Partner is Vanilla…: Three Options Available To You When Your Partner Isn’t Kinky

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This entry is part 2 of 11 in the series Introducing BDSM to Your Partner

So you’ve discovered kink and want to try some things out. You talk to your partner about it.  Unfortunately, no matter how you suggest things to your partner they aren’t interested. They are really vanilla. It may be obvious that I’m not talking about the ice cream flavor here, but if you are really a

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When Masturbation Is No Longer Private – Playing With Yourself For Your Dominant

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The views in this article are mine and mine alone unless otherwise stated. I like those definitions especially the end part where they say “especially to orgasm”. Makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside! A little background I started masturbating at an early age as many of you may have, not knowing what it

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