Recommended BDSM Tools and Toys

Searching for the most comfortable bondage cuffs, ideal flogger, or the perfect whip? Finding the right toys can take some time, especially when shopping online. Whether you’re after a new remote vibrator, soft, beginner-friendly rabbit fur flogger, or something with a bit more bite for the seasoned masochist in your life, you’ll find a store here to meet your needs. Many of these shops carry a wide variety of toys, so take your time to explore and discover more.

This page is still under construction, and stores are always being added. Do you know of an online store that should be on this list? If so, email me at lunakm @ submissive guide. com.

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6 Whips – Floggers, paddles and cuffs.

Agreeable Agony — Agreeable Agony is a small BDSM/kink company run by a collection of crafters, artisans, and kinksters from the Northeast USA who build beautiful handmade floggers, dragon tails, wildly weird rubber and silicone toys, slappers, pitcher candles, claws, pretty colored bondage rope, and other unique kinky toys.  

Alexander Paddles – Creating original, artistic, handcrafted pieces constructed using the finest hardwoods and leather.

Asylum Leathers – Impact toys, restraints and accessories.

BADesign Store – We use a variety of materials, such as colorful and exotic woods, acrylic, aluminum and polycarbonate to create visually appealing and unique items that are designed to both delight and torture.

Bare Leatherworks —Our floggers, spreader bars, paddles, canes, and slappers are all handcrafted in our shop near Seattle using the finest quality leather, rubber, and hardware. They are designed, built, and tested by experienced S/M players to ensure they are functional and durable and will provide many many years of service.

BDSM-Gear – From handcrafted leather restraints to meticulously engineered tools for sensory exploration, each piece is a testament
to our dedication to quality and authenticity, since 2000.

Black Body – Leather, neoprene, and rubber BDSM gear and toys.

Black Widow Floggers – Black Widow is dedicated to making quality products customized to the needs and desires of all kinds of players. Longer, shorter, wider, thinner, or your favorite colors: Black Widow is here to take your toys and scene to the next level with elegant, refined, and quality toys designed to be used.

Bondage Robot – Handmade collars, restraints and impact toys.

Bondatrix – Unique BDSM gear individually crafted in our U.K. workshop and shipped worldwide. Perfect for submissive women and men. Winner of the International Bondage Awards and the 2020 UK Fetish Awards.

BunnyFlogger—BunnyFloggers, Bunny Biter crops, Bunny Paddles, and Bunny Mitts are available through our online store.

The Crafting Joker – I understand myself as a custom maker who makes everything to the customer’s specifications. I do not have any production lines. I am interested in all kinds of crafting, but I have a special interest in leather and braiding. Other materials I like to use are wood, metal, rubber, and plastic.

Dark Harvest Leather – High-quality leather creations, from masks, collars, restraints to impact tools.

EF Leathercraft – Custom Made Floggers, Kangaroo Whips, Nylon Whips, Galley Whips, Cat O’ Nine Tails, and Other Custom Leather Products.

FetFriendly – Unique custom paddles and fetish items.

Firebird Leather – Firebird Leather carries one of the widest ranges of colors and leather types available in BDSM gear.

HOLO Leather – Since 2012, Holo has been serving the BDSM Community by providing handcrafted high-quality collars, cuffs, whips, floggers, and other lifestyle-friendly products that bring pleasure and pain to new levels of quality.

Ken’s Twisted Mind – A variety of fucking machines: high quality, not massed produced plastic toys. Committed to offering high-quality American Made Fucking Machines for every lifestyle.

Kinky Creations Studio – Toys that go “ouch”!

Kink Works Rx – Wooden Paddles and other luxury spanking implments.

Leather or Knot By Ralph – Specializes in high-quality, hand-crafted leather products. Their products are all handcrafted in the USA in a smoke-free environment. We offer a selection of leather, rubber, wood and other miscellaneous materials.

Leather Wood Studios – LeatherWood Studios makes high quality bondage gear that works the first time, every time. We are in the life. We know what works for us and what we like.

Lotus Blooms – A diverse collection featuring body-positive lingerie and steel-boned corsets, vibrators & BDSM gear, as well as instructional books, hypoallergenic lubricants, and massage products.

Lusty Bunny Leather – Floggers, paddles, blindfolds, and other creative specialty BDSM gear.

Miss Rose Paddles – Every Miss Rose Hand-crafted paddle is hand-shaped, hand-cut, and finished by me, Miss Rose. With over 15 years of Exotic Hardwood Paddle-making. I feel that our products stand far above any others.

Mr Malaprop Designs – I design and make distinctive lightweight impact toys for sale to the BDSM community. I take great care in selecting fine domestic hardwoods like birch, maple and walnut, as well as lovely exotic woods including padauk, ebony, bloodwood and purpleheart.

Mr S Leather – For over 40 years, Mr. S Leather has been the world’s forerunner in the fetish industry. From the beginning, there has been a passionate and clear vision to bring you the absolute best in top-quality bondage, leather, rubber, and neoprene clothing, as well as amazing sex toys to make sure your play is the best it can be.

Nice Leather Gear – Leather paddles, whips, and creative impact toys.

The Paddle Man – The Paddle Man maker of quality handmade BDSM products spanking paddles and accessories in the finest Italian and European leathers with woods from around the world, all made and designed in my own studio workshops by someone who knows and understands what customers demand from high quality BDSM products.

Paraphilia Toys – By combining traditional woodwork and saddlery techniques with the premium materials we create items of superb quality and engaging class.

Red Back Porch – Handcrafted Spanking Paddles & Soft Hemp Bondage Rope

RodsByRane – Brightly colored acrylic canes

SquatchworX – Unique floggers, paddles, and other handcrafted impact tools.

Stockroom – The Stockroom is the original internet source for quality sex toys, online and selling to tech-savvy fans of kink since 1990. We’ve now been selling sex toys, bondage gear, and restraints online for over 30 years, catering to curious novices and extreme BDSM players alike.

Wian Studios – A wide variety of Fabulous Floggers, including Buffalo, Bullhide, Deer, Elk, Moose and Cow, as well as a selection of round and flat braided Cat O Nine Tails for those desiring a bit more sensation.

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