Discover Your Submissive Identity
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Hi, I'm Luna, and I'll be your guide.
Highly trusted and well-known for compassionate submissive learning, I have been providing wisdom to novice submissives and fostering a caring community for over 15 years. Welcome to Submissive Guide, where you’ll learn the skills to identify your submissive mindset, I’ll encourage you to be your truest self and help you discover a world of kinky possibilities.
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How to Share Feedback as a Submissive: Respectful and Honest Communication with Your Dominant
Struggling to speak up when something feels off in your dynamic? This article offers real talk and practical tips for submissives who want to give feedback to their Dominant without stepping out of their role.
When Submissives Go Wild: Sub Frenzy
Submissive Frenzy, or “sub frenzy,” is an intense psychological state where submissive desires feel overwhelming and urgent. It can cloud judgment, leading to risky decisions and emotional turmoil. Understanding its causes and signs—like desperation for connection, impaired judgment, and risky behavior—can help you navigate it safely. Read more here!
Solo-Coaching: Nurture a Positive Point of View
Cultivating a positive mindset is essential for every submissive’s journey. Learn how to reframe negative thoughts, practice self-care, and embrace self-compassion to strengthen your submission and personal growth. Discover practical tools to shift your perspective and build confidence in yourself and your dynamic.
What to Do When a BDSM Scene Goes Wrong: Important Advice for Submissives
When a BDSM scene goes wrong, knowing how to respond can make all the difference. This guide for submissives explores common issues like ignored safewords, emotional triggers, injuries, and consent violations—plus practical steps to recover, protect yourself, and build resilience for future play. Stay safe, informed, and empowered in your BDSM journey.
Be a Cow! My Journey into Hucow Play
Curious about hucow play in BDSM? Discover a personal journey into embracing a playful, sensual cow identity. Learn how to explore your own hucow persona, build a unique “cow-tfit,” create immersive scenes, and connect with a welcoming community. Perfect for beginners ready to moo-ve into this fun and empowering kink!
Solo Coaching – The Power of “No”: Honoring Yourself as a Submissive
Saying ‘no’ is a powerful act of self-respect, even in submission. Learn how to honor yourself, set boundaries, and embrace the empowerment that comes with maintaining autonomy as a submissive.
