We’re thrilled to announce our Book of the Month for September 2025: “Becoming a Service Submissive”! This essential workbook is designed for submissives who wish to explore service submission with their Dominant partners. This workbook provides a comprehensive and approachable way to understand and integrate service into your D/s dynamic. Read the book’s details on […]
We’ve been building Submissive Guide for over 15 years, but this September we’re doing something brand new — our First Annual Membership Drive! For the entire month, we’re celebrating the community, releasing freebies, hosting events, and rolling out some exclusive rewards we’ve never offered before. This isn’t just a Patreon thing. It’s a community thing. Whether you’ve followed Submissive […]
In this ebook, I will help you learn how to create a personal ad that gets results, what to do once you’ve started connecting with a Dominant, and the tools and ideas you can use to make your D/s relationship intimate and connected, even if meeting each other isn’t possible. Read the book's details on […]
This Friday, October 10, at 7 PM CST, our Discord server will host our monthly munch, featuring the topic: Kink Etiquette: Rules That Aren’t Written Down 💡 Munches are casual, friendly gatherings to discuss important ideas, share experiences, and connect with fellow community members. 💬✨ Whether it’s your first munch or your fiftieth, come as […]
🎉 We’re hosting a monthly watch party exclusively in our Discord server – and you're invited! Each month, we’ll watch BDSM educators’ YouTube videos together and discuss the topics in real-time. It’s an easy, fun way to learn, share insights, and connect with the community. 🔍 This month’s topic: What's In a Sensation Play Kit? […]
We’re thrilled to announce our Book of the Month for November 2025: “Exploring Anal Pleasures”! Discover the art of anal play to unlock new dimensions of pleasure and vulnerability within the context of BDSM and power dynamics. This book covers essential foundations for a fulfilling journey, from communication and consent to safety and hygiene. Read […]