We’ve been building Submissive Guide for over 15 years, but this September we’re doing something brand new — our First Annual Membership Drive! For the entire month, we’re celebrating the community, releasing freebies, hosting events, and rolling out some exclusive rewards we’ve never offered before.
This isn’t just a Patreon thing. It’s a community thing. Whether you’ve followed Submissive Guide for years or are just stumbling across us here, we’d love for you to take part.
✨ What’s Happening?
From September 1–30, 2025, we’re going all in:
- Exclusive stickers & enamel pins for Patrons who join, upgrade, or stay with us during the drive.
- New freebies released throughout the month (including printables and mini-lessons you can try on your own).
- Community events on FetLife, Discord, and Patreon where we’ll gather, learn, and celebrate submission together.
🎁 Freebies You Can Grab Right Away
Everyone (yes, even non-Patrons!) can enjoy these as they come out:
- Submissive Affirmations Card – a printable reminder that your submission is valuable and strong.
- Mini-Lessons + Reflection Activities:
- Starting Out in D/s – Explore the questions every new submissive asks.
- Erotic Begging – Playful, dirty, polite… how do you beg?
- Active Submission – Learn how to bring more enthusiasm into your service and keep your Dominant engaged.
🫂 Events You’re Invited To
We’re making space for connection and fun:
- Discord Munch – Hang out in your PJs, meet fellow kinksters, and chat.
- Watch Party – View a BDSM educator’s Youtube video together and discuss in real time.
- Submissive Forum – A voice-chat deep dive on submissive topics.
- Ask Me Anything (AMA) – Across Discord, FetLife, and Patreon. Want to ask about submission, kink, or even my journey as a collared sub? This is the time.
- Weekly community chats – Ongoing discussions in both free and patron-only spaces.
💎 Why Consider Becoming a Patron?
Sure, the public freebies are fun, but Patrons (especially at the Students tier: $10/month) unlock so much more:
- Access to mini-classes like The Submissive’s Toolbox, Pet Play Explorations, and Intro to Submission.
- Worksheets, workbooks, and deep-dive activities you won’t find anywhere else.
- Early access to new articles, podcasts, and guides.
- Live chats & Q&As just for the community.
- And of course — the special stickers & enamel pins that only exist for this drive.
📅 Thinking Long-Term? Annual Memberships Rock
If you’ve been on the fence, annual support is the perfect time to commit:
- Get an exclusive Submissive Guide enamel pin (any tier).
- Save 12% off by paying once for the year.
- Lock in all the perks of your chosen tier, no monthly billing to worry about.
- Know you’re keeping BDSM education thriving all year long.
🖤 Why We’re Doing This
Submissive Guide has always been about making BDSM education easily available, realistic, and empowering. We’re not a glossy fantasy site — we’re a living, breathing resource created by and for submissives. This drive is our way of celebrating the community, growing stronger, and offering a little extra sparkle to those who support the work.
Some of the goodies will vanish back into the vault when the month is over. So if you’ve ever thought about joining or upgrading, this is the best time.
💬 Ready to Join the Fun?
You don’t need to be a Patron to participate in the events or enjoy the freebies. But if you do choose to support us — even just at $5 — you’ll be helping keep submissive-centered education alive and thriving.
👉 Check out patreon.com/subguide for all the details.
👉 Hop into our Discord server to join the community.
Let’s make September unforgettable together. 🥂