uncollaring

What NOT to Do and Say When Someone You Know is Uncollared

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I know, I get it. I’ve always worn a collar since you first met me. It’s become a part of my permanent wardrobe. So, you’ll notice it when it’s missing. You want to know what happened. But for all that is kind and gentle and caring, please don’t bring it up. In April 2017, KnyghtMare […]

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Stop Serving Yourself: An Inspirational Un-Collaring Ceremony

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Past hurt can build emotional walls that follow us into new relationships. Inspired by an uncollaring ceremony, this personal reflection explores self-protection, fear, trust, and the struggle to surrender old defenses when they begin interfering with the submission and connection you genuinely want to experience in a D/s relationship.

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