There once was a time when I believed that writing about my feelings was the only way I could honestly express what I felt in my heart. Throughout high school I wrote what I can only describe as teen angst poetry. Little did I know that I would learn more about myself in that writing
Shame and fear of judgment can make it difficult to embrace your submissive or kinky identity. One submissive shares her struggle with accepting submission, being a Little, and reconciling BDSM with her religious upbringing. Her reflection encourages readers to question outside judgment, let go of embarrassment, and move toward self-acceptance.
Be Not Ashamed – Accepting Who You Are and Where You Came From Read More »
Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Have you found your submission has changed with different partners/relationships? If you’re involved with partners of both sexes, does your submission relate or change based on gender or does it depend on the person? Unfortunately, you probably won’t get
30 Days of Submission: Day 16 – Is My Submission Different in Various Relationships? Read More »
Several years ago, I was reading a book. In the book, one of the characters had a tattoo that read “quod nutrit me destruit me”. After reading a bit further, the translation of the quote was given, “that which nourishes me also destroys me”. Long after finishing the book, I was unable to forget that
Learn How to Nourish Yourself, Your Relationship and Your Submission Read More »
When starting out in submission, there are a lot of roads you can choose and so many people direct novices to training and need to be trained. Most of these novices then seek out a Master or Dominant to train them. This concept that the Dominant can teach the submissive more about surrender is a
Dominance as a Slave Training Tool for Better Submission Read More »
