submissive etiquette

Finding Your Submissive Voice: Speak Up for Better, Honest Communication

Almost every submissive or slave I speak with questions their “voice.” How much to say to their Dominant? When to say it? Can they say anything?  What if s/he thinks I’m rude? Would it be better to not say anything? What is appropriate? Can I still have a voice? Speaking up vs. speaking out VERSUS Shutting up […]

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How Protocol Develops in D/s Relationships

This entry is part 9 of 35 in the series Rituals, Rules and Protocol

It’s often the case that protocol develops in D/s relationships that start out with a bit of structure to them, whether the relationship intended it or not. While there are some casual style relationships that have protocol, I haven’t seen a lot of it when a relaxed relationship is preferred. Now with that said, I

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