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I want to be sexually submissive, but equal in day-to-day life. How to find a partner?

This may be easier than you think, dear s-type! It is important to remember that finding the right Dominant or Top through dating or shopping around can sometimes feel challenging. I liken the vanilla dating pool to a bowl of cereal. Lots of individual options floating around. Now take a spoonful out and in there- […]

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How do you know if I’ll enjoy submission if I’ve only been exposed through erotic novels?

By Luna Carruthers / 2 minutes of reading

Question: I’ve been a voracious reader of BDSM and D/S erotic novels for years and am not sure if I enjoy it just as entertainment or because I feel like something might be missing from my life. How do you know if you are a submissive, and if you think you might be, how do

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Is being a brat a turn off for Dominants?

By Luna Carruthers / 2 minutes of reading

Full Question: I like to be a brat sometimes. Is that a turn-off for the Doms in general? A lot of them don’t like brats. Answer: Being a brat in the BDSM community is a unique and valid role within the spectrum of submission. It’s not a turn-off for all Dominants; in fact, many Doms

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Is Submission in Opposition to Feminism?

By Luna Carruthers / 2 minutes of reading

Recently there has been a lot of talk about Feminism and its role in society where it’s related (or not related) to submission in a D/s context. I read kaya’s post from Under His Hand, that while being a rant, was a well thought out discussion on how narrow-minded a lot of feminists are who

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