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Dominant Personality with a Submissive Identity

Can you be assertive, independent, and naturally take charge while still being submissive? This article explores the difference between everyday personality and D/s identity, challenging the assumption that submissives must be passive or meek. A strong personality doesn’t determine the role you choose within your relationships or make your submission less genuine.

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Don’t Be a Shelf-Sitter

There is a problem that is more common within online submission that I refer to as shelf-sitting. I have experienced it and am slowly seeing it happen to others that I know of online communities. It is sad that this is occurring but perhaps I could shed some light on what it is and perhaps

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