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The Importance of Taking Your Time Exploring Submission Before Starting a Relationship

By Luna Carruthers / 3 minutes of reading

One thing I have learned from my experience as a submissive and my encounters with submissives and slaves all over the place has been the importance of taking things slowly. At one time or another, we all tend to rashly jump into a D/s relationship without really knowing the Dominant that we are surrendering to. […]

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Virgins Can Love BDSM Too: How Sexual Preference Doesn’t Have to Involve Sex

By Luna Carruthers / 2 minutes of reading

Virginity. It’s valued and prized and then remembered. There are even people who believe in a second virginity. Of course, there are also BDSM virgins when people just get started. But, the question I got posed to me the other day was if you are a sexual virgin can you even know that you are

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Limits: Drawing That Line In The Sand

By Luna Carruthers / 3 minutes of reading

“What are your limits?” “Scat, blood, the dead and kids.” “You must be new.” “Huh?” “Only the novices have so few limits.” This is a real conversation. It happens all over the net and in munch groups. Sure there are no-limits slaves out there, but that’s just not as common as the rest of us. We come

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Submission By Choice: Learned Submission

By Luna Carruthers / 6 minutes of reading

Submission has been called a gift. It has been said to be a natural characteristic. Submission is also a choice. When I first entered the lifestyle, no one would have mistaken me for a submissive. I am strong willed, commanding and independent. I have a dominant personality. Nature, society and the way I was brought

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