In my continuous effort to read the books that have been in the bottom of my Kindle, I came across Kitty Thomas’ Tender Mercies. It wasn’t until I finished it and was writing a review that I realized what a great lesson this piece of fiction can teach those in the lifestyle, especially those that are new. […]
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When BDSM is an essential part of who you are, dating requires more than physical attraction. This article explores compatibility, honesty, and realistic expectations, encouraging readers to seek partners who genuinely share their relationship goals and values rather than hoping someone will eventually embrace a lifestyle they never wanted.
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I was talking with a Dominant the other day about safe calls and how I feel that they are vital for a novice submissive when meeting someone new, especially when they are so inexperienced in the lifestyle as most tend to be. What he said in response, floored me. I’m paraphrasing here, “I don’t like
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