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Morning and Nighttime Briefing: Rituals for Coping with Uncertainty

This entry is part 34 of 35 in the series Rituals, Rules and Protocol

We live in uncertain times—as submissives and as people—our lives are changing every day. Uncertainty is not automatically a problem in itself. However, many of us have become accustomed to a certain amount of structure and control in our lives, making it challenging to make an abrupt, constant change. This makes sense. After all, we […]

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Maintenance Spankings – Why Do It?

This entry is part 13 of 35 in the series Rituals, Rules and Protocol

This week’s video post is about maintenance spankings. Maintenance spankings are a way to keep the relationship fresh, revive the roles on a regular basis and to not let life away from the dynamic interfere with what your relationship goals are. A maintenance spanking can be anything from a scheduled night of the week where

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Leaving Work at the Door: How to Find Your Submissive Mindset Once You Are Both Home

My first question for March Question Month is about making the mental switch from work to home life. I know from experience that this is a very difficult time for both the Dominant and the submissive.  You could have had an intense day at work, or the submissive is in a position of power at

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