Role Expectations

Feeling Unfulfilled: Do My Sexual Needs Not Matter in a D/s Relationship?

This entry is part 8 of 10 in the series Submissive Wants and Needs

Dear lunaKM, My boyfriend and I have decided to enter into a D/s relationship as fully as we can. Though I love serving my Dom, I find myself resentful that, mostly, sex involves his orgasms and not mine.  Very rarely does he seem interested in my pleasure at all or trying to connect my pleasure […]

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A Mental Predicament: Balancing Wants and Needs

This entry is part 1 of 10 in the series Submissive Wants and Needs

Welcome new contributor andyiccee! My Master and I have been together for nearly three years, we have been through family crises, late studying nights, and more fights than I can count, but we always come out stronger on the other side. Integrating S&M into our sex life was a very simple transition, we communicated fantasies,

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Are There Basic Expectations in a Dominant That I Should Look For?

Weeding through the number of messages in your inbox asking to get to know you better is a daunting task to most single people, and being submissive looking for a Dominant is no different. Well, perhaps it’s a little different. The compatibility that you are looking for as a submissive is more specific and challenging.

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10 Tips to Make Moving In With Your Dominant (or vise-versa) Smooth and Easy

The progress of a serious relationship leads to moving in with the other. Whether in a more traditional format after marriage or a modern stand of whenever the relationship is serious enough for that commitment, deciding to do just that takes preparedness. I want to talk about how to prepare yourself and your home for

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