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Being Submissive in a Vanilla World and How to Balance it Out

This entry is part 5 of 11 in the series Introducing BDSM to Your Partner

Things have changed a bit in our household in the past few weeks. The biggest change(and the one thing that has caused other things to change-yay snowball effect!)has been that I have started my German language course required by the immigration office This means that I now have class from 8:45 AM until 12:45 PM, […]

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Who Has the Greatest Responsibility in a D/s Relationship?

In my first few months of submission, I was asked about my ideal relationship by a Dominant friend of mine. It’s something that I still ask novice submissives when they come to me asking how to find a Dominant that they are compatible with. My answer reflected ignorance and misunderstanding. I believed that my ideal