Relationship Advice

But My Partner is Vanilla…: Three Options Available To You When Your Partner Isn’t Kinky

This entry is part 2 of 11 in the series Introducing BDSM to Your Partner

So you’ve discovered kink and want to try some things out. You talk to your partner about it.  Unfortunately, no matter how you suggest things to your partner they aren’t interested. They are really vanilla. It may be obvious that I’m not talking about the ice cream flavor here, but if you are really a

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Creating a Safe Space: Enhancing Communication in D/s Relationships

“Safe spaces require that we appreciate and respect the vulnerability of others and grace it with our own.” – Christen Killick Good communication is the cornerstone for a great relationship, whether in a Dominant/submissive dynamic or not. When you’ve been at this for a while, you don’t have to think much about it because it

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10 Tips to Make Moving In With Your Dominant (or vise-versa) Smooth and Easy

The progress of a serious relationship leads to moving in with the other. Whether in a more traditional format after marriage or a modern stand of whenever the relationship is serious enough for that commitment, deciding to do just that takes preparedness. I want to talk about how to prepare yourself and your home for

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