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Looking for a Dominant Partner? Do This First! How To Perform a Self-Assessment

Recently, my Master and I listened in on a kink Q&A. I was interested to see what questions people had about kink, especially people seeking guidance. Somewhat surprisingly, most people who tuned in seemed to have questions about relationships more than kink. Many of them were submissives curious about how to look for or embark […]

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Feeling Submissive Again After a Break – How I Am Reclaiming Myself

By lunaKM / 7 minutes of reading

Sometimes, even though you try your hardest, that spark of submission fades. Whether that be from stress, relationship issues, a death in the family or some other upheaval there may come a time when you feel yourself fighting submission, arguing with every request and pushing against your Dominant at every turn. You may even just

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The Importance of Being Authentic

By tequilarose / 4 minutes of reading

I haven’t really written much lately. It’s been a part lack of motivation and part lack of inspiration. I’ve had a few ideas, but nothing that really convinced me that I need to actually put down any words. But then the Universe hit me with a really big stick. A couple of months ago, I

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Stress Overpowering the Dynamic – Submissive Mediation Monday

By lunaKM / 3 minutes of reading

This entry is part 6 of 19 in the series Submissive Meditation Monday

I’m devoting this Monday to meditation, reflection and devotion to submission. I hope to select topics that will get you thinking differently about some part of your life or submission and then just maybe grow a little bit further. If you have ideas for topics that might work for a Meditation Monday, please email me. We all can handle

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Always Getting in Trouble – Submissive Meditation Monday

By lunaKM / 3 minutes of reading

This entry is part 14 of 19 in the series Submissive Meditation Monday

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Capturing That Elusive Submissive Mindset

By lunaKM / 4 minutes of reading

We reach far and deep within to touch the submissive mindset. The moment is fleeting or short lived and we have a need to reach it again and again. Often the goal is to live in the submissive mindset all the time. For others, it is being able to reach the mindset on a whim.

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Finding a New Love – The Impact of Time on Your BDSM Checklist

By laneydoll / 3 minutes of reading

Falling in love is easy, so is falling out of love-especially when it is the love of a toy. One of the assignments that I assign to the people I mentor involves this occurrence. When I came into the lifestyle, I had two main loves-rope and floggers. To me, there was nothing better than getting to

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Submissive Self-Discovery Leads to Self-Worth

By lunaKM / 3 minutes of reading

Self-worth is inherent in all of us. We gather our own opinions about ourselves and based on what we think other people think of us. I had a tendency to rate myself, at say five or six on a scale from one to ten, in terms of how worthy I was. Worthy of happiness, success, joy,

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Tina-poLD’s Personal Thoughts on Domestic Service

By guest-author / 4 minutes of reading

tina-poLD was inspired by the month long series of Domestic Service on Submissive Guide and has shared her own personal thoughts on the subject. Would you like to chime in? Leave a comment and let us know your own opinion! Domestic service encompasses many aspects of caring for a home and those who live there.

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