pleasure in pain

Processing Pain and Being a Masochist

By Luna Carruthers / 4 minutes of reading

Being that I’m a masochist, I love pain. I’ve never really thought about it or analyzed what that means really, but reading other people’s blogs has always helped me see that saying I’m masochist is just another huge personal term in BDSM as a whole. So, to think it though, this is what being a […]

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Do I have to Like Pain to be Submissive?

By Luna Carruthers / 2 minutes of reading

I’m a masochist and get sexual pleasure from pain; that’s wired into me. I’m also submissive. It’s who I am. For me, these two things go together. It’s not always the case. A huge misunderstanding is that you have to like pain to be submissive. Masochism is a part of your sexual identity; you either

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