Be More Specific About Pain – When a Tool is More Than Sting or Thud

This entry is part 23 of 23 in the series Pain Processing

When I first learned about BDSM, and then that I enjoyed pain play as a masochist, there was a moment when a Top that I had asked to play with asked me a very specific question, at least I thought it was specific at the time. “Stingy or thuddy?” Did I prefer, sting or thud […]

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