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Vetting BDSM Communities: How to Stay Safe and Spot Red Flags

By Luna Carruthers / 9 minutes of reading

Finding community in BDSM can be life-changing—but not every space is safe. This guide walks you through how to vet BDSM groups and leadership, identify red flags, and protect yourself while building the kind of kink community where everyone can thrive.

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What are some tips for couples who are both new to BDSM?

By Luna Carruthers / 2 minutes of reading

Full Question: Tips for a new submissive going into the lifestyle with a Dom who is also new. Answer: What an exciting time! When you first embark on exploring BDSM and D/s relationships, there’s a lot of new information that is likely to overwhelm you. It can be difficult when you have so many questions

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