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How can a willing sub help a willing but nervous new Dom feel comfortable in the scene?

By Luna Carruthers / 4 minutes of reading

When a Dominant is new or feeling unsure, a submissive’s support can make a meaningful difference. This article explores how a willing submissive can help a nervous new Dominant feel more confident during scenes through communication, reassurance, feedback, and mutual trust, without taking over the power exchange.

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I’m new, how do I not look like a fake Dom?

By Luna Carruthers / 2 minutes of reading

Full Question: I am a new dom. How do I not come off as a fake dom? Answer: Understandably, when you are new, you feel like everyone is judging you as “real” or “fake,” and it can be hard to find real connections. So, let’s start with what a fake dom really is and talk

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How Do I Help My Dom Give Me What I Need

By Kayla Lords / 3 minutes of reading

Hi SG, I’m relatively experienced when it comes to submission. I’ve submitted in play to a number of delightful Dommes and pushed my boundaries nicely over the years. I’ve never had a long term D’s relationship, though. I’m just entering into a relationship with a lady who is highly sexed and thoroughly enjoying the power.

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