negotiating submission

Am I obligated to answer questions about what humiliates me if it embarrasses me?

Question: Last week, in the introductory phase, I had a Domme ask me what humiliates me.  I hesitated to tell her because it also embarrassed me.  Hope that makes sense.   I ended up telling her, but it was very uncomfortable.    What are your thoughts on this question, and am I obligated to answer this?

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The Basic Tenets of Being a Submissive in a D/s Dynamic

Healthy submission is not about becoming voiceless, perfect, or dependent on a Dominant. This guide explores the foundations of sustainable D/s relationships, including personal identity, rights, needs, communication, negotiation, mistakes, growth, and ongoing consent. Your submission should fit you and your partner rather than someone else’s idea of what it should be.

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