Many submissives struggle with the idea of being a “good” submissive and measuring up to unspoken standards. This article explores the mythology surrounding the ideal submissive, challenging perfectionism and encouraging readers to redefine submission in ways that are authentic, intentional, and grounded in healthy self-awareness.
Submissive Mythology: The Good Submissive Read More »
I’ve noticed a lot of questions in FetLife recently (and almost always) about how to maintain the mindset in a 24/7 relationship. I’ve not responded to these there because I’ve created this article as my reply. The advice that the people have received may or may not help them. My thoughts on the subject are
The Myth of the 24/7 Submissive Mindset (and Why So Many of Us Struggle) Read More »
This is a guest post by Shahjahani a personal friend and Hospice Nurse. “Grief is a journey, not something you get over” Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D. Grief can be experienced for many reasons, not just the loss of a loved one. Grief is not just related to the loss of a person’s physical presence. Grief
7 Myths of Grieving and Understanding Your Responses to Death Read More »
This is a guest post by Slut M as a response to SubWise #6 about BDSM Myths. According to the mythological story, a slut is a downtrodden woman who by nature or by circumstances is propelled to debase her body in sexual desires. And so the story goes: these sexual desires control her and her behavior
Sluts: Debunking Another BDSM Myth Read More »
The world is full of false truths. These false truths tend to be the assumptions of the uninformed or the beliefs of those who want to scare novices out of their wits. Many of these are because of a narrow view of the world or an inability to accept varying viewpoints. In this post, I’m
All Female Submissives are Bisexual and Other BDSM Myths Read More »
