misconceptions about sex

Are BDSM and kink always sexual?

By Luna Carruthers / 2 minutes of reading

Question: Why is everything about BDSM/kink sexual? I read a post on FetLife once stating that a play scene could absolutely be non-sexual, but of course, they didn’t give any examples. I have never seen a non-sexual scene. If non-sexual play is possible, then why is almost everyone naked (or close to it) at play […]

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The Role Sex Plays in a D/s Relationship

By Luna Carruthers / 8 minutes of reading

When I was first learning about sex as a teenager there were a few key bits of information that the adults around me wanted to drive home. Sex was done in a loving relationship; remember “when two people love each other very, very much…”, as adults and only if you wanted children. Nothing was ever

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