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  • Isolation Struggles
  • jealousy
  • jerk behavior
  • journal decoration
  • journal prompts
  • journal selection
  • journaling
  • journaling benefits
  • journaling habits
  • Journaling in D/s
  • journaling practices
  • journaling resources
  • journaling supplies
  • journaling tips
  • journaling tools
  • journals
  • joy
  • joy of submission
  • judgement
  • kajira
  • kajira lifestyle
  • keeping BDSM private
  • kink academy
  • kink acceptance
  • kink advice
  • kink and alcohol
  • kink and daily life balance
  • kink and disability
  • kink and health
  • kink and intelligence
  • kink and intimacy
  • kink and parenthood
  • kink and relationships
  • kink awareness
  • kink community
  • kink conventions
  • kink curiosity
  • kink curious
  • kink dating approach
  • kink discovery
  • kink during pregnancy
  • kink dynamics
  • kink education
  • kink events
  • kink exploration
  • kink for beginners
  • Kink for well-being
  • kink frenzy
  • kink friendly spaces
  • kink groups
  • kink growth
  • kink identity
  • kink in professional life
  • kink in public
  • kink journey
  • kink literature
  • kink novels
  • kink podcasts
  • kink resources
  • kink safety
  • kink vs vanilla
  • kink-aware doctors
  • kink-friendly doctors
  • kink-friendly therapists
  • kink-friendly therapy
  • kink-positive healthcare
  • kinks
  • kinky cons
  • kinky date night
  • kinky dating
  • kinky friends
  • kinky literature
  • kinky love
  • kinky parenting tips
  • kinky play
  • kinky play on vacation
  • kinky reads
  • kinky rituals
  • kinky road trip
  • kinkycast
  • kitchen cleaning
  • kitchen tips
  • kneeling
  • kneeling alternative
  • kneeling techniques
  • kneeling tips
  • knife play
  • knitting
  • knitting basics
  • knives
  • labels
  • labels and terminology
  • lactation play
  • language barrier
  • language rules in BDSM
  • language skills
  • larger bodied
  • laughter
  • launguage skills
  • LDR
  • ldr advice
  • LDR success
  • LDR survival
  • leaders
  • leadership
  • learned submission
  • learning
  • learning and growth
  • learning curve
  • learning experience
  • learning from mistakes
  • learning in bdsm
  • learning in D/s
  • learning opportunities
  • learning pain processing methods
  • learning styles
  • learning to communicate
  • learning to please
  • learning together
  • leather care
  • leather community
  • leather culture
  • leather families
  • leather fetish
  • leather lifestyle
  • leather protocol
  • legacy
  • legal issues
  • length of play session
  • letting go
  • letting go of the past
  • letting people down gently
  • level 10 life
  • levels of protocol
  • levels of sub space
  • LGBTQ+
  • libido
  • life balance
  • life challenges
  • life changes
  • life goals
  • life lessons from pets
  • life long learning
  • life mission statement
  • life transition
  • lifehacks
  • lifestyle
  • lifestyle adjustment
  • lifestyle changes
  • lifestyle choices
  • lifestyle dating
  • lifestyle events
  • lifestyle insights
  • lifestyle submissives
  • lifestyle transition
  • limits
  • limits and boundaries
  • limits list
  • listening skills
  • listening techniques
  • listening to your Dominant
  • literary influences
  • little dynamics
  • littles
  • littles in modern society
  • littlespace
  • living authentically
  • living D/s
  • living documents
  • living in a BDSM household
  • living the D/s lifestyle
  • living with intention
  • local kink communities
  • long distance play
  • long distance play activities
  • long distance relationships
  • long distance support
  • long distance to in-person
  • long-distance love
  • long-distance play
  • long-distance relationship
  • long-term relationships
  • losing a collar
  • loss
  • loss and grief
  • love
  • love and addiction
  • love and commitment
  • love and lust
  • love and submission
  • love in D/s
  • M/s contract
  • macromanagement
  • maintaining anonymity
  • maintaining connection
  • maintaining connection in LDR
  • maintaining D/s
  • maintaining D/s while ill
  • maintaining harmony
  • maintaining intimacy
  • maintaining long distance
  • maintaining privacy in BDSM
  • maintaining protocol
  • maintaining submission
  • maintaining submissive bliss
  • maintenance spankings
  • making mistakes
  • making your bed
  • male grooming
  • male submission
  • male submissives
  • managing BDSM around roommates
  • managing D/s around family
  • managing different diets
  • managing emotions
  • managing illness
  • managing jealousy
  • managing stress
  • managing sub drop
  • manners
  • manners 101
  • marks
  • marriage
  • marriage advice
  • marriage counseling
  • marriage vs collaring
  • masculinity
  • maslow's hierarchy
  • masochism
  • massage rituals
  • Master/slave dynamics
  • masturbation
  • masturbation control
  • maturity
  • meal ideas
  • meal organization
  • meal planning
  • meal prep strategies
  • meal preparation
  • mediation
  • medical advice
  • medical play
  • meditation
  • meditation monday
  • meditation on love
  • meeting kinksters
  • meeting new people
  • meeting people
  • meeting safety
  • meetups
  • melting points
  • memes
  • memorable moments
  • memories
  • mental conditioning
  • mental health
  • mental health in BDSM
  • mental shift
  • mental thresholds
  • mental wellness
  • mentoring
  • mentorship in bdsm
  • menu planning
  • messy play
  • microblogging tips
  • micromanagement
  • Mid-life Exploration
  • middles
  • mind play
  • mindful submission
  • mindfulness
  • mindset
  • mindset during play
  • mindset shift
  • miracle morning
  • Misconceptions About BDSM
  • misconceptions about sex
  • missing your partner
  • misunderstanding
  • mobile kink
  • monday meditation
  • money management
  • money saving tips
  • monogamy
  • monogamy vs nonmonogamy
  • monopoly
  • mood setting
  • mood swings
  • moral values
  • morality
  • morality and sexuality
  • more experienced submissives
  • morning ritual
  • morning routine
  • motivation
  • motivations in BDSM
  • mourning
  • moving
  • moving abroad
  • moving in together
  • moving on
  • multiple D/s households
  • multiple Dominants
  • multiple partners
  • mummification
  • munch
  • munch directory
  • munch etiquette
  • munch groups
  • munches
  • music
  • mutual pleasure
  • mutual respect
  • mututal respect
  • my little pony
  • myth busting
  • myth debunking
  • mythbusting
  • myths
  • myths about sluts
  • nail care
  • natural cleaning
  • natural high
  • natural pain process
  • nature vs nurture
  • naughty talk
  • naughty texts
  • navigating conversations
  • navigating dom drop
  • navigating munches
  • navigating polyamory
  • navigating power exchange
  • navigating relationship challenges
  • navigating subspace
  • need deficits
  • need to submit
  • needs
  • needs vs wants
  • negative pain management
  • negative responses
  • negative thinking
  • negative thoughts
  • negotiating limits
  • negotiating submission
  • negotiation
  • negotiation skills
  • negotiation techniques
  • nerds and geeks
  • netiquette
  • networking
  • neurological dysfunction
  • new beginnings
  • new Dominant
  • new relationships
  • new to BDSM
  • new year's resolutions
  • newbie resources
  • newbie tips
  • newbies
  • nirvana
  • no limits slavery
  • no orgasms
  • no stupid sex toy questions
  • noise control
  • non-monogamy
  • non-verbal safewords
  • nonjudemental attitude
  • nonjudgemental attitutude
  • nonsexual play
  • nonsexual service
  • normalcy
  • notebook options
  • notebook shopping
  • notebooks
  • novice dominants
  • nurturing a Dominant
  • nurturing friendships
  • obedience
  • objectification
  • observation skills
  • obsession
  • OCD
  • old guard
  • old school
  • online BDSM
  • online BDSM communities
  • online collars
  • online communication
  • online community
  • online conduct
  • online courses
  • online dating
  • online dating sites
  • online dominants
  • online dynamics
  • online etiquette
  • online event
  • online exploration
  • online journaling
  • online learning
  • online mentorship
  • online play
  • online predators
  • online presence
  • online privacy
  • online profile tips
  • online punishment
  • online relationships
  • online safety
  • online shopping
  • online submission
  • online submissives
  • online vs offline BDSM
  • online vs. real-life BDSM
  • open communication
  • open dialog
  • open marriage styles
  • open mindedness
  • open relationships
  • opening up
  • openmindedness
  • openness
  • oral sex
  • organization
  • organizational tools
  • organized life
  • organizing events
  • orgasm control
  • orgasm denial
  • orgasm obedience
  • orgasm on command
  • outdoor kink
  • outdoor play
  • outing a kinkster
  • outing someone
  • outting
  • outting in BDSM
  • over analysis
  • over apologizing
  • overcoming adversity
  • overcoming challenges
  • overcoming failure
  • overcoming fear
  • overcoming fears
  • overcoming guilt
  • overcoming insecurity
  • overcoming limits
  • Overcoming Nervousness
  • overcoming past
  • overcoming social anxiety
  • overthinking
  • overwhelming craving
  • owner/pet dynamics
  • ownership
  • oxytocin
  • oxytocin and bonding
  • oxytocin release
  • pain and pleasure
  • pain and submission
  • pain descriptors
  • pain endurance
  • pain exploration
  • pain management
  • pain play
  • pain play techniques
  • pain processing
  • pain processing series
  • pain sensitivity
  • pain threshold
  • pain tolerance
  • pain types
  • pampering
  • pansexuality
  • parenting
  • parenting challenges
  • parenting in kink
  • parenting stages and kink
  • parenting tips
  • parenting with illness
  • partner care
  • partner compatibility
  • partner support
  • partnership
  • party etiquette
  • party outfits
  • party preparation
  • party protocol
  • party rules
  • passive submission
  • past baggage
  • patience
  • patience and devotion
  • pavlovian conditioning
  • peer relationships
  • people pleasing
  • perception
  • perfection in D/s
  • perfectionism
  • period sex
  • permission
  • persona vs role
  • personal ads
  • personal beliefs
  • personal boundaries
  • personal care
  • personal desires
  • personal development
  • personal discipline
  • personal experience
  • personal expression
  • personal finance
  • personal goals
  • personal grooming
  • personal growth
  • personal hygiene
  • personal identity
  • personal insights
  • personal integrity
  • personal journey
  • personal mantra
  • personal preferences
  • personal presentation
  • personal protocol
  • personal reflections
  • personal responsibility
  • personal safety
  • personal story
  • personal submission
  • personal toys
  • personal wellness
  • personality
  • personality traits
  • personalized D/s
  • personalized service
  • perspective
  • perspectives
  • pervertables
  • pet play
  • pet play safety
  • petitioning
  • photos
  • physical changes
  • physical intimacy
  • physical limits
  • physical submission
  • pick up play
  • planning
  • planning a collaring ceremony
  • play dynamics
  • play experiences
  • play negotiation
  • play parties
  • play partners
  • play party
  • play party essentials
  • play party etiquette
  • play party rules
  • play preparation
  • play recovery
  • play requests
  • play responsibly
  • play safety
  • play session reflection
  • playboy flair
  • playfulness
  • playing in public
  • playing outdoors
  • playlist recommendations
  • playlists
  • playtime
  • playtime soundtrack
  • playtime techniques
  • pleasing a dominant
  • pleasing your dominant
  • pleasure and control
  • pleasure in pain
  • podcast
  • podcasts
  • politeness
  • poly myths
  • poly relationships
  • polyamory
  • polyamory tips
  • pomodoro technique
  • positional service
  • positive affirmations
  • positive change
  • positive habits
  • positive mindset
  • positive pain management
  • positive progress
  • positive reinforcement
  • positive thinking
  • positive waiting
  • post scene care
  • power dynamics
  • power exchange
  • power exchange in sex
  • power exchange styles
  • power play
  • power struggles
  • practical tips
  • pre-play preparation
  • predators
  • predicament bondage
  • pregnancy
  • preparation checklist
  • Preparation for Living Together
  • preparation for submission
  • preparation routine
  • presence
  • pride
  • pride in submission
  • primal instincts
  • primal play
  • primary partner
  • prime directive
  • priorities
  • prioritize health
  • prioritizing goals
  • prioritizing issues
  • privacy
  • privacy in BDSM
  • privacy tips
  • private party
  • proactive service
  • problem solving
  • processing pain
  • productivity
  • profile creation
  • profile writing
  • proper manners
  • protecting identity in kink
  • protecting personal details
  • protocol
  • protocol development
  • protocol dinner
  • psychological states
  • psychological struggles
  • psychology
  • PTSD recovery
  • public behavior
  • public collars
  • public masturbation
  • public party
  • public play
  • public submission
  • public vs private life
  • punishment
  • punishment and reward
  • punishment dynamic
  • punishment methods
  • punishment strategies
  • punishment tools
  • punishment vs Punishment
  • purposeful intention
  • quality time
  • quality vs convenience
  • questioning submission
  • questions
  • quick meals
  • quick reference
  • quiet BDSM play
  • quiet kink play
  • quiet punishment techniques
  • quiet toys
  • quote inspiration
  • quotes for journaling
  • race and BDSM
  • race play
  • racial stigma
  • RACK
  • raw emotion
  • re-entering the scene
  • re-framing
  • reaction vs emotion
  • reactive emotions
  • reactive service
  • reader submissions
  • reading discussion
  • reading tips
  • real life encounters
  • real life vs BDSM
  • real people in kink
  • real talk
  • real-life BDSM
  • real-time BDSM help
  • realistic D/s
  • realistic expectations
  • realities of online D/s
  • realities of submission
  • reality
  • rebuilding dynamics
  • rebuilding faith
  • rebuilding relationships
  • rebuilding trust
  • recharge yourself
  • recognizing burnout
  • recommendations
  • recommended reading
  • reconnecting with submission
  • record keeping
  • recording experience
  • recovery
  • recovery from injury
  • red flags
  • redflags
  • rediscovering submission
  • reference library
  • reflect and grow
  • reflecting on mistakes
  • reflection
  • reflection of dominance
  • reflection on service
  • reflective practice
  • reflective writing
  • refocusing techniques
  • rejecting others
  • rekindling romance
  • rekindling submission
  • relapse prevention
  • Relationship Advice
  • relationship balance
  • relationship boundaries
  • relationship building
  • relationship challenges
  • relationship changes
  • relationship commitment
  • relationship communication
  • relationship compatibility
  • relationship contacts
  • relationship contracts
  • relationship development
  • relationship dynamics
  • relationship enhancement
  • relationship expectations
  • relationship foundation
  • relationship goals
  • relationship growth
  • relationship healing
  • relationship issues
  • relationship labels
  • relationship maintenance
  • relationship milestones
  • relationship needs
  • relationship negotiation
  • relationship preparation
  • relationship protocols
  • relationship red flags
  • relationship reflection
  • relationship rituals
  • relationship rules
  • relationship satisfaction
  • relationship skills
  • relationship strain
  • relationship stress
  • relationship struggles
  • relationship symbols
  • relationship tips
  • relationship tokens
  • relationship tools
  • relationship transition
  • relationship types
  • relationships
  • relationships and stress
  • relationships are work
  • relaxation
  • reliable resources
  • religion and BDSM
  • religious views
  • relocation
  • reminders
  • remote play
  • remote punishments
  • removal of collar
  • renewal
  • repairing clothes
  • repectful questioning
  • resolving disagreements
  • resource library
  • resources
  • respect
  • respect autonomy
  • respectful address
  • respectful communication
  • respectful dialog
  • respectful speech
  • respecting boundaries
  • respecting limits
  • responses to pain
  • responsibilities
  • responsibility
  • responsibility in BDSM
  • responsible parenting
  • responsible submission
  • responsive play
  • restraint
  • returning a collar
  • rights
  • rimming
  • risk and reward
  • risk assessment
  • risk awareness
  • risk management
  • risk mitigation
  • risky play
  • ritual
  • rituals
  • rituals in submission
  • role balance
  • role definitions
  • role development
  • role dynamics
  • role expectation
  • Role Expectations
  • role models
  • role of safewords
  • role play
  • role play ideas
  • role play in BDSM
  • role play scenes
  • role playing
  • role recovery
  • role reinforcement
  • role reversal
  • role signaling
  • roleplay ideas
  • romance
  • romance vs logic
  • romantic D/s
  • romantic expressions
  • romantic gestures
  • rope bondage
  • rope play
  • routine
  • routines
  • rule based relationships
  • rule enforcement
  • rules
  • sadness
  • sadomasochism
  • Safe
  • safe BDSM play
  • safe BDSM practices
  • safe call
  • safe call stories
  • safe calls
  • safe communication space
  • safe meeting
  • safe meeting practices
  • safe play
  • safe play practices
  • safe practices
  • safe sex
  • safe sex practices
  • safe sex supplies
  • safe signals
  • safe words
  • safety
  • safety first
  • safety mantras
  • safety precautions
  • safety tips
  • safeword alternatives
  • safeword etiquette
  • safewords
  • safewords during punishment
  • safewords matter
  • Sane
  • save money on groceries
  • saving money
  • saying no
  • scene analysis
  • scene care
  • scene dynamics
  • scene etiquette
  • scene ideas
  • scene management
  • scene names
  • scene negotiation
  • scene planning
  • scene preparation
  • scene protocol
  • scene recovery
  • scene reflection
  • scene report
  • scene reports
  • scene safety
  • scene setting
  • scene traditions
  • seasonal affective disorder
  • second chances
  • secret relationships
  • secrets
  • seduction
  • seeking closure
  • seeking happiness
  • seeking help
  • seeking release
  • self acceptance
  • self affirmation
  • self aftercare
  • self assessment
  • self awareness
  • self care
  • self compassion
  • self confidence
  • self definition
  • self development
  • self discovery
  • self doubt
  • self empowerment
  • self esteem
  • self expression
  • self forgiveness
  • self help
  • self identity
  • self improvement
  • self love
  • self pain play
  • self preservation
  • self protection
  • self reflection
  • self respect
  • self sabbotage
  • self talk
  • self worth
  • self-acceptance
  • self-care
  • self-collaring
  • self-discovery
  • self-esteem
  • self-exploration
  • self-expression
  • self-improvmeent
  • self-love
  • self-punishment
  • self-reflection
  • self-regulation
  • self-respect
  • self-sufficient dominant
  • selfishness
  • selflessness
  • sensation play
  • sensitivity
  • sensory cues
  • sensory experience
  • sensory overload
  • sensory play
  • sensual bondage
  • sensual hypnosis
  • sensual language
  • separation anxiety
  • service
  • service dynamics
  • service ideas
  • service in BDSM
  • service industry
  • service resources
  • service resume
  • service skills
  • service submission
  • service submissive
  • service training
  • service types
  • service-based play
  • serving food
  • serving while exhausted
  • setting boundaries
  • setting the scene
  • sex advice
  • sex drive mismatch
  • sex play
  • sex tips
  • sex toy care
  • sex toys
  • sexting
  • sexting platforms
  • sexual anatomy
  • sexual arousal
  • sexual availability
  • sexual awakening
  • sexual boundaries
  • sexual chastity
  • sexual communication
  • sexual compatibility
  • sexual control
  • sexual desire
  • sexual discipline
  • sexual dynamics
  • sexual education
  • sexual empowerment
  • sexual energy
  • sexual experience
  • sexual exploration
  • sexual expression
  • sexual fantasy
  • sexual fidelity
  • sexual freedom
  • sexual fulfillment
  • sexual health
  • sexual health tips
  • sexual identity
  • sexual liberation
  • sexual needs
  • sexual orientation
  • sexual play
  • sexual pleasure
  • sexual practice
  • sexual preferences
  • sexual role play
  • sexual satisfaction
  • sexual service
  • sexual submission
  • sexual taboos
  • sexual techniques
  • sexual variety
  • sexual wellness
  • sexuality
  • sexually transmitted infections
  • shame
  • shared knowledge
  • sharing kinks
  • sharing knowledge
  • sharing partners
  • sharing photos online
  • sharing space
  • shave service
  • shaving service
  • shaving supplies
  • shaving tips
  • shibari
  • shopping for a collar
  • shopping tips
  • short-term relationships
  • shortcuts
  • showing respect
  • showing submission
  • shyness
  • sibling submissives
  • side hustle
  • simple living
  • single submissives
  • singlehood and submission
  • situational service
  • size in BDSM
  • skill development
  • skill enhancement
  • skin care
  • skincare tips
  • slash speak
  • slash speech
  • slave
  • slave contracts
  • slave heart
  • slave identity
  • slave journal
  • slave meditation
  • slave mentality
  • slave mindset
  • slave positions
  • slave responsibility
  • slave symbolism
  • slave training
  • slave uniform
  • slave's longing
  • slavehood
  • slavery
  • sleep hygiene
  • slut empowerment
  • SM
  • SM and impact play
  • SMART goals
  • social acceptance
  • social anxiety
  • social connections
  • social etiquette
  • social events
  • social graces
  • social media etiquette
  • social media guidelines
  • social networking safety
  • social protocol
  • social rules in BDSM
  • social secretary
  • social skills
  • social stigman
  • socializing
  • soft limits
  • solo coaching
  • solo submission
  • spanking
  • spanking appeal
  • spanking couples
  • speak up
  • speaking up
  • special favors
  • special moments
  • special positions
  • speech training
  • spice up your sex life
  • spicing up sex
  • spiritual connection
  • spiritual growth
  • spiritual submission
  • sponsor post
  • spontaneity
  • SSC
  • SSC vs RACK
  • standing at attention
  • starting a group
  • starting a journal
  • starting out
  • stay at home submissive
  • stay-at-home submissive
  • stereotypes
  • stereotypes in BDSM
  • stigma
  • stockpile management
  • stopping feelings
  • stress
  • stress and depression
  • stress and submission
  • stress management
  • stress relief
  • strong-willed
  • structure
  • sub drop
  • sub fever
  • sub frenzy
  • sub shaming
  • sub space
  • sub-lending
  • submission
  • submission activities
  • submission and health
  • submission as a gift
  • submission in daily life
  • submission in everyday life
  • submission progression
  • submissive
  • submissive achetypes
  • submissive activities
  • submissive advent
  • submissive advice
  • submissive behavior
  • submissive blogging
  • submissive boundaries
  • submissive break
  • submissive burnout
  • submissive calling
  • submissive challenges
  • submissive community
  • submissive connection
  • submissive development
  • submissive dilemmas
  • submissive eagerness
  • submissive education
  • submissive emotions
  • submissive empowerment
  • submissive engagement
  • submissive ethics
  • submissive etiquette
  • submissive expectations
  • submissive experience
  • submissive exploration
  • submissive feeling
  • submissive frenzy
  • submissive fulfillment
  • submissive growth
  • submissive identity
  • submissive improvement
  • submissive in charge for work
  • submissive initiative
  • submissive insights
  • submissive journaling
  • submissive journey
  • submissive language
  • submissive learning
  • submissive life
  • submissive meditation
  • submissive mental state
  • submissive mentors
  • submissive mindfulness
  • submissive mindset
  • submissive myths
  • submissive nature
  • submissive needs
  • submissive poses
  • submissive positions
  • submissive potential
  • submissive prayer
  • submissive pride
  • submissive questions
  • submissive reflections
  • submissive resources
  • submissive responsibilities
  • submissive resume
  • submissive rights
  • submissive rituals
  • Submissive Role During Tough Times
  • submissive roles
  • submissive roots
  • submissive rules
  • submissive skills
  • submissive speech
  • submissive stories
  • submissive strength in adversity
  • submissive struggles
  • submissive support
  • submissive teaching
  • submissive thoughts
  • submissive tips
  • submissive training
  • submissive traits
  • submissive unity
  • submissive voice
  • submissive vs. slave
  • submissive's dilemma
  • submissiveness
  • submissives
  • subspace
  • subspace exploration
  • substance use
  • subtle kink
  • subtle symbols
  • success in relationships
  • successful relationships
  • sudden illness
  • super ego
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  • Supporting Your Partner
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  • taboo play
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  • taking care of each other
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  • topping from the bottom
  • total power exchange
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  • transitioning to D/s
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managing stress

Everyone Needs a Break, Right – Do you Break from Submission?

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I often get the question about how I can be submissive all the time, that I must have other responsibilities that should take precedence on occasion and submission is often turned off.  I can understand where these questions are coming from but for me, submission isn’t what I do, it’s who I am. It’s much […]

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