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Breaking Free from Perfection: Embracing Imperfection in Submission

By Luna Carruthers / 6 minutes of reading

When I first started exploring submission, I was hungry to be the perfect submissive. Everywhere I looked, there were examples of submissives who seemed to have it all together. They were doing intense training, following strict protocols, mastering specialized skills, and dedicating every moment to the dynamic. I would read their blogs, talk to them […]

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There Is No Such Thing as Vanilla Life When You Are 24/7

By Luna Carruthers / 4 minutes of reading

I know I say I use FetLife for a lot of my ideas on things to write about, and it’s true. There are many novices on there and the multitude of questions and topics that come up help me generate a lot of thoughts that I can put into words, opinions and hopefully helpful advice

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The Challenges of Being Kajira in Today’s Society

By guest-author / 4 minutes of reading

Today’s guest post is by dina from Kajiradreams. You can also read her post on what it’s like to be an owned kajira and a kajira’s strengths and misconceptions. There is so many stereotypes, misconceptions of what a kajira is; what gor is; what the Gorean lifestyle is; what a BDSM lifestyler looks like; what that sort of relationship

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