learning in bdsm

How Do I Know What I Like? I’m Brand New

By Luna Carruthers / 4 minutes of reading

Everyone started here at some point or another. You may even be at this point right now. Brand new to BDSM, D/s or both and not sure what you would like in a relationship, the bedroom, with kink…. anything. And then you meet people online or face to face that asks you right off the […]

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4 Things to Look for in a BDSM Mentor

By Luna Carruthers / 4 minutes of reading

There are mentors in every area of life and situation. In BDSM, newbies are sometimes recommended to pick up a mentor but are never given the tools to find a mentor that is right for them. I know that when I first started, there were good people to be around and not-so-great people that left

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