Jealousy is an odd bird. It nests in the unlikeliest of places. It sings at the most inopportune times—and it doesn’t let anyone sleep. Whether you’re in a D/s dynamic that’s open to new play partners, or you’re in a polyamorous relationship, jealousy can be a challenge. If it’s causing snags in your relationships (and
5 Tips for Coping with Your Jealousy in a D/s Dynamic Read More »
Uniqueness is underrated. Everyone wants to be like everyone else, are comparing themselves to others in order to fit in, but it’s the fun little unique aspects of a relationship that make it special. Kindling those unique things is especially important for me in a mono-poly and likely most other relationships. Every relationship is unique
Jealousy is a common and complex emotion in mono/poly relationships. This article explores why jealousy arises in mixed relationship structures and how partners can address it through communication, reassurance, boundaries, and emotional responsibility, helping maintain connection and trust without shame or minimization.
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Jealousy can surface even in loving, established polyamorous D/s relationships. One submissive shares how insecurity, loneliness, and fear of being loved less can appear when a Dominant divides time among multiple partners. She offers practical ways to manage those feelings through communication, reassurance, distraction, and recognizing personal jealousy triggers.
Taming the Green-Eyed Monster – Managing Jealousy in a Poly Family Read More »
Several years ago on Fetlife, I read something that made Kinky and Popular. I hate that I can’t remember who wrote this, but for sure I remember the writing. I remember the writing because I think like every submissive and slave, I’ve had this issue before and still do from time to time. The title
Stop Comparing Yourself With Others – My Submission Isn’t Better Than Yours Read More »
There are probably two very sensitive and deeply moving confessions that a slave could make – admitting to being territorial and/or jealous. These demons are a complete terror and have visited many relationships since the beginning of time. In order to move about freely and enjoy the fruits of a healthy M/s relationship, they need
Back Off Bitches! Feeling Territorial and Jealousy as a Slave Read More »
This is a guest post by Aria. She has written for Submissive Guide in the past, you can check out her post on Two Dominants here . Today she brings a common Poly Relationship question – jealousy to light. Yes! Almost all of us have felt jealousy at one time or another. The best thing
If I feel Jealousy, can I still be Poly? Read More »
