Full Question: My Dom and I have been together for three years. We are each other’s first when it comes to D/s, and we are learning and exploring together. Mostly, we have navigated and communicated our journey wonderfully. However, He opened up to me a few days after quite an extreme scene, where I cried
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Submission is not passive or automatic, it is an intentional choice that evolves over time. This article explores how submission is tested through challenges, doubt, and growth, encouraging submissives to reflect on agency, resilience, and recommitment as part of a healthy, self-aware submissive journey.
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Can you be assertive, independent, and naturally take charge while still being submissive? This article explores the difference between everyday personality and D/s identity, challenging the assumption that submissives must be passive or meek. A strong personality doesn’t determine the role you choose within your relationships or make your submission less genuine.
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Jealousy can surface even in loving, established polyamorous D/s relationships. One submissive shares how insecurity, loneliness, and fear of being loved less can appear when a Dominant divides time among multiple partners. She offers practical ways to manage those feelings through communication, reassurance, distraction, and recognizing personal jealousy triggers.
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It’s no secret that I’m an avid reader by all the book reviews that I’ve done for the site. A few months ago, I picked up a copy of Dark Secret Love by Alison Tyler. If you’ve not heard of it, think of it as a modern-day Story of O. Even though this is a piece of
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Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Does religion have any bearing on your decision to submit? If not, are you familiar with religious based submission and do you view it as similar to other types of submission or dissimilar? I was raised in an Open
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