Many submissives worry they must be healed, confident, or fully self-loving before they can be “good enough.” This article explores whether self-love is a prerequisite for submission, reframing growth as part of the journey, not a barrier to belonging or deserving a healthy D/s dynamic.
A common derogatory word used in submissive circles is “doormat” as in, you don’t want to be a doormat submissive. Rarely is it talked about beyond saying that you should not let your Dominant walk all over you. I agree of course, but for the inexperienced, understanding what that really means can come after being
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I know that if you spend any amount of time online in kink related social networks or chat rooms you will encounter the following person a time or two. This person identifies as sub and through their writing, you notice they treat every single Dominant as if they are serving them. Whether it be by
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