guilt and shame

After “Red” : How to Manage the Aftermath When You’ve Used Your Safeword

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Your safeword is your lifeline for play. It is a way to express you’ve reached a limit, whether that is a physical limit or an emotional one. The couples that play with safewords know that there is an often unspoken importance in only using it when it is necessary and this is a large reason […]

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A Skill Every Novice Submissive Needs to Master: Guilt Resolution from Mistakes and Punishment

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This entry is part 10 of 17 in the series Discipline and Punishment

Everyone at one time or another is going to go through moments of guilt. Submissives may have added self-guilt when you break a rule or upset your Dominant. These things are going to happen as you develop and grow in your role and your life. It’s hard to believe but no one is perfect. What

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