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After “Red” : How to Manage the Aftermath When You’ve Used Your Safeword

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A safeword is your lifeline in play—a vital way to communicate when you’ve reached a physical or emotional limit. For those who play with safewords, there’s often an unspoken expectation that they’re reserved for serious moments, making submissives hesitant to use them. But remember, using your safeword is never something to be afraid of. While […]

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A Skill Every Novice Submissive Needs to Master: Guilt Resolution from Mistakes and Punishment

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This entry is part 10 of 17 in the series Discipline and Punishment

Everyone at one time or another is going to go through moments of guilt. Submissives may have added self-guilt when you break a rule or upset your Dominant. These things are going to happen as you develop and grow in your role and your life. It’s hard to believe but no one is perfect. What

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