Pansexuality is more than gender—it’s attraction to people as individuals. This reflection shares one submissive’s journey of discovering pansexual identity later in life, questioning labels, and embracing desire that transcends sex or gender. Honest, thoughtful, and personal, it offers insight into what being pansexual means in real relationships.
On Being Pansexual Read More »
In the first article of this series, I discussed how I see feminism fitting in with both the BDSM community and submission. Moving to a personal level, I have identified with feminism since I could say the word. As I grew up, I would say that my ‘type’ of feminism was definitely more of a political
A Feminist Submissive – Does Such a Person Exist? Yes! And I’ll Tell You Why Read More »
I have spent much time pondering the seemingly conflicting views of feminism and submission. In the first part of my article, I would like to discuss feminism and how it fits in with my view of both the BDSM community and submission. In the second part, I will explore how I practice feminism in my
Acceptance of My Feminist Submissive Identity Read More »
I read on an online forum recently about the stigma that a Master or Dom should be manly or masculine. So many replied that they agreed and had found a Dominant that was physically stronger than they were. I was not in agreement and questioned why they idea of masculinity was associated with Dominance. No
Stereotyping Submission as Feminine Read More »
Recently there has been a lot of talk about Feminism and its role in society where it’s related (or not related) to submission in a D/s context. I read kaya’s post from Under His Hand, that while being a rant, was a well thought out discussion on how narrow-minded a lot of feminists are who
Is Submission in Opposition to Feminism? Read More »
