Full Question: Hi! Please, I need help with some rules for a first date. I can’t find it on Fetlife. Thank you so much. Answer: First and foremost, this is a date. It’s just like any other date you may have been on. The only difference is that you are dating someone to see if […]
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Full Question: I am meeting a Dom for the first time…and am uncertain whether I should ask him if he has any preference in terms of what he’d like me to wear? I like him and would like very much to wear something that I know would please him…but I am acutely sensitive to the
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Question: I am supposed to meet my 1st Dom tomorrow. Do you have any suggestions for me? Things to look out for to be safe or things to please him? Answer: Meeting a potential Dominant for the first time can be an exciting and anxious experience. For first dates, make sure you have basic information
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When I was a novice submissive I was single and searching for a Dominant to be my playmate, my partner, and my lover. I explored all the places online that existed at the time, many that do not exist now or have been replaced by better sites. I was, in a word, desperate, to experience BDSM
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hello again, I’ve been talking with a DOM who is considering me for sub training. and wants me to go to him, what should I be expecting on the first face to face meeting.? wendylee Well, that’s a difficult question with a simple answer. You expect whatever the two of you negotiated would happen. I
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First date jitters are perfectly normal, but it’s a good idea to calm your nerves prior to meeting your date. Before any first date, avoid thinking about the countless “what if” scenarios and simply go without any expectations. Unfortunately, the nervous energy attached to meeting a Dominant for the first time doesn’t go away for
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