finding a partner

I want to be sexually submissive, but equal in day-to-day life. How to find a partner?

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This may be easier than you think, dear s-type!  It is important to remember that finding the right Dominant or Top through dating or shopping around can sometimes feel challenging. I liken the vanilla dating pool to a bowl of cereal. Lots of individual options floating around. Now take a spoonful out and in there- […]

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How do I find a partner?

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Full Question: How do I find a partner who is interested in kink and/or D/s? Answer:  This is the most asked question in the Ask Submissive Guide column, so here’s your answer! The first step in finding a partner is going where they are. The good news is that kinksters are everywhere. Unfortunately, we don’t

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Being Specific in What You’re Looking For

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Full Question: How common, realistic or successful is it to be seeking a Dominant with specific physical, emotional, and social traits? Is it rude to blatantly list specific physical and personality characteristics? (eg. ABC sub seeking Dom/Master with XYZ)  Answer: It’s extremely common to have preferences for partners. When you’re dating and looking for a

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Finding Your Dominant: Dating when BDSM is Something You Need

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When BDSM is an essential part of who you are, dating requires more than physical attraction. This article explores compatibility, honesty, and realistic expectations, encouraging readers to seek partners who genuinely share their relationship goals and values rather than hoping someone will eventually embrace a lifestyle they never wanted.

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