finding a partner

How do I find a partner?

Full Question: How do I find a partner who is interested in kink and/or D/s? Answer:  This is the most asked question in the Ask Submissive Guide column, so here’s your answer! The first step in finding a partner is going where they are. The good news is that kinksters are everywhere. Unfortunately, we don’t […]

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Being Specific in What You’re Looking For

Full Question: How common, realistic or successful is it to be seeking a Dominant with specific physical, emotional, and social traits? Is it rude to blatantly list specific physical and personality characteristics? (eg. ABC sub seeking Dom/Master with XYZ)  Answer: It’s extremely common to have preferences for partners. When you’re dating and looking for a

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Finding Your Dominant: Dating when BDSM is Something You Need

This is a guest post by  Mistress Steel. It was part of her Steel’s Chamber Scrolls which is now defunct. Shared with Permission. Are you looking for a magic spell? That unique formulae that will guarantee you the results you want? Well, there isn’t any trick. Not really… If you are looking for a lifetime partner,

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