This is a guest post by Mistress Steel. It was part of her Steel’s Chamber Scrolls which is now defunct. Shared with Permission. Sometimes it feels like we have an overwhelming need for labels. Everything should nicely fit as if the world or the universe is a gigantic jigsaw puzzle and everything has its place […]
The False Comfort of Labels on Our Personal Identity in Kink Read More »
The other day in a female submissives only group I help run on Facebook, I posted a link that talked about what things were expected of a 1950’s housewife. This isn’t the first time I’ve seen this and it probably won’t be the last. This is one of those things that tend to pop up on
Stop Sub Shaming: It’s Not Cool to be Judgy Read More »
This is a guest post by Mistress Steel. It was part of her Steel’s Chamber Scrolls which is now defunct. Shared with Permission. Terms: Propositions, limitations or provisions stated or offered for the acceptance of another and determining the nature, scope, and conditions of the agreement. The ONE TRUE WAY: All submissives are created as equal
Submissive on Your Own Terms: Analyzing The One True Way Read More »
Pansexuality is more than gender—it’s attraction to people as individuals. This reflection shares one submissive’s journey of discovering pansexual identity later in life, questioning labels, and embracing desire that transcends sex or gender. Honest, thoughtful, and personal, it offers insight into what being pansexual means in real relationships.
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Kink isn’t reserved for a specific body type, size, or look. This article explores body positivity in BDSM, challenging harmful myths about who “gets” to be kinky and encouraging self-acceptance, confidence, and pleasure at every size, shape, and stage of personal growth.
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Power exchange is only one aspect of BDSM. This article explores the broader elements that shape BDSM relationships and play, including communication, trust, intimacy, sensation, and connection, helping readers understand kink as a multifaceted experience rather than a single dynamic or structure.
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Being an adult little doesn’t mean giving up adult responsibilities. This personal reflection challenges stereotypes that littles are immature or irresponsible, showing how childlike interests and little identity can coexist with school, work, household tasks, errands, and everyday life. Being playful doesn’t determine someone’s ability to function responsibly.
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