D/s communication

When Words Fail: The Hidden Cost of Silence in Submission

By Luna Carruthers / 10 minutes of reading

Many submissives are taught to stay quiet, but silence can create confusion, resentment, and disconnection. This article explores how over-apologizing and avoidance impact communication in submission, and introduces a simple, practical tool to help you speak with more awareness, clarity, and intention.

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Every Good Conversation Starts with Active Listening

By Luna Carruthers / 7 minutes of reading

“The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand. We listen to reply.” Submissive Guide was started not just to share what I know; it is also, at least for me, a way to continue to learn by talking out my struggles and answering the questions presented to me. Communication is a key

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