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5 Ways Rituals Enhance Your Relationship with Yourself and Your Dynamic

This entry is part 1 of 35 in the series Rituals, Rules and Protocol

Often enough, rituals are reserved for “serious” M/s relationships and D/s that has gone 24/7. At least that’s what I pick up from the multitude of threads I read online and the people I talk to in groups. If you’ve read anything on this site before you’ll probably know my stand on that. It’s completely […]

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Why A Punishment Dynamic May be Just What You Need

This entry is part 7 of 17 in the series Discipline and Punishment

As a novice looking for a relationship it is a good thing to know if discipline and punishment are something you are looking for. The punishment I’m talking about today is the correction for infractions, or getting into trouble. It’s not about the playtime activities which can be called punishment also.  So, thinking about your

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Is It Submission If You Like What You’re Doing?

This entry is part 16 of 30 in the series Novice Submissives Start Here

I love surfing the submissive blogs to see what other people are talking about. Many times it gives me something to talk about here on this site. This post is one such example. Over on Underhishand.com, kaya asked about submission and what qualifies it as submission. She asked, “if you are not expected to do

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