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Breaking Free from Perfection: Embracing Imperfection in Submission

By Luna Carruthers / 6 minutes of reading

When I first started exploring submission, I was hungry to be the perfect submissive. Everywhere I looked, there were examples of submissives who seemed to have it all together. They were doing intense training, following strict protocols, mastering specialized skills, and dedicating every moment to the dynamic. I would read their blogs, talk to them […]

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Remember Who You Are – Staying True to Yourself in a D/s Relationship

By tequilarose / 8 minutes of reading

When an individual enters a relationship, it’s quite easy to lose yourself. You start using ‘we’ instead. “We” liked the movie, “We didn’t like the restaurant” and of course, there’s all those love songs about two becoming one (I am so sorry if the Spice Girls song 2 Becomes 1 is now stuck in your

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Finding Your Way to a Genuine Self

By Luna Carruthers / 5 minutes of reading

When you first learned about submission or BDSM you may have felt a sense of coming home, of finally understanding what wasn’t sitting right for you. But along with that relief come questions. You thought you knew who you were, and now you’ve been thrown into a new world and you don’t know who you

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