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How To Navigate Public BDSM Play as a Transgender Person

Dear Submissive Guide, I’m new to the scene and realizing I’m very interested in submission and masochism. I’m also gay and transgender (an FtM who is attracted to men). I’m gearing up the courage to go to a play party, and while I might not play at my first one I will want to play […]

Entering the Community: Who You’ll Meet and What You Can Expect at a Play Party/BDSM Dungeon

By kayla-lords / 4 minutes of reading

Welcome to part five in this week’s series all about how to help you feel more comfortable entering and becoming a part of the local BDSM community. Some of the best education I’ve received as a submissive, especially on the different ways other people live the D/s life, have been from people in my local area . Attending a

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