asking for play

How to Ask for More BDSM Playtime

By Luna Carruthers / 5 minutes of reading

As a submissive, I understand how hard it is to face your Dominant and ask them to play or have sex or what have you. When I was new I thought that asking for these things was a boundary you just didn’t cross. My belief that the Dominant was supposed to do things to you […]

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How to Ask for Play and Why It’s So Hard For Submissives To Do

By Luna Carruthers / 3 minutes of reading

One of the hardest things we do as submissives is asking for play. For many of us, coming out and saying we want play feels like we are topping from the bottom, stepping out of our submissive boundaries and doing something that isn’t in our character. But I’m here to tell you that it isn’t.

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