Full Question: Good resources on begging examples? Feel like I’ve gone through many and they weren’t great.
Answer:
Great question! Being asked to beg for something is one of the simplest forms of erotic humiliation within a BDSM scenario, for others, it’s a part of everyday interactions with their Dominant partners that emphasize humility. It’s also one that can be pretty difficult for people to learn.
First, it’s not just what words you say. You have to find a way to feel embarrassed or vulnerable. If you aren’t slightly uncomfortable with what you’re asked to do, begging won’t work.
My Best Tips for Great Verbal Begging
While the following formula isn’t going to work for every partnership or situation, I wanted to give you a few tips for making your verbal begging extra spicy.
Be specific. If your goal is to increase the humiliation intensity, using “vulgar” language during begging does the trick very well. This is especially true if the submissive doesn’t use this kind of language naturally. Employing them in begging is not only super hot but can also allow you to be an abandoned, wanton puddle of need.
Be vulnerable. Even though some of the words you use may seem silly, the honest desperation behind them really pleases most Dominants who enjoy begging. Adding moans, groans, and other vocalizations when you just can’t find the words will buy you time to get further into desperation and hopefully help you figure out how to debase yourself in begging.
Describe how you feel. Being able to describe how your need and desperation are making you feel is powerful. It’s also one of the harder things to vocalize. If your cock is throbbing or your clit aches, share that in your begging phrases.
Whimper. Cry. Let yourself get overcome by the need. Then put that need into words!
Need more tips on begging? I’ve got a podcast episode on Erotic Begging!