Sample Master/slave Contract with Ethical Non-Monogamy Section

This written contract is the evolution of our dynamic – after living as Dominant and submissive and then as Master/slave with no contract. This was our personal return to living under a written contract. I will also be providing our original D/s contract and our most recent contract to help see how one dynamic has evolved over time.

24/7 Master/slave Contract

Section One

I, XXXXXXX, with a free mind and open heart, do request of XXXXXX that He accept the submission of my will unto His and take me into His care and guidance, that W/we may grow together in love, trust, and mutual respect.

The satisfaction of His wants, desires, and whims are consistent with my desire as a slave to be found pleasing to Him. To that end, I offer Him use of my time, talents, and abilities.

 Further, I ask, in sincere humility, that as my Master, He accept the keeping of my body for fulfillment and enhancement of O/our sexual, spiritual, emotional, and intellectual needs. To achieve this, He may have unfettered use of my body any time, any place, and in front of anyone as He will determine.

 Master’s symbol of Ownership includes myself being collared as well as any future marks or tokens He may wish to bestow. Symbols of Ownership are a visible reminder of status and will be worn with pride. They signify Master’s control and the lifestyle chosen by me. The collar is to remain upon my neck at all times unless necessary. If such necessity should arise the collar should only be removed by Master or with Master’s approval if He is unavailable or for medical emergency.

 This agreement may be reviewed and amended at any time, but will be reviewed no less than once per month on the 1st of each month together.

Section Two: Code of Conduct

Duties of Servitude

-Above all, it is my duty as a slave to please.

-Personal duties: cater to the physical/emotional needs of Master, amusement, sexual toy/plaything, physical comfort, obedience, honesty, loyalty, waiting on Master as desired.

-Household duties: cleaning and keeping the home maintained, laundry, shopping for the home and Master, all cooking and baking, caring for the children, run errands. Any tasks assigned should be considered permanent until further notice.

 Behavior – General

 -Attitude: as a slave, I will show an attitude of respect at all times.

-Respect includes: manner of speech, promptness, keeling to serve (whenever appropriate), proper answers, obedience, and wholehearted honesty.

-I will address Master as either “Master”, “Sir”, ” Mister”, or given name at all times using the most appropriate term for the situation.

-Master come first (with exception to immediate childcare needs).

-I will dress as Master desires, including always doing my best to have a beautiful appearance.

 -Respect and obedience are the two most valuable aspects of attitude and I will show them at all times. Failure to do so will be punished as severe offenses.

Behavior – Specific

Upon Arrival Home: I will immediately greet Master with a smile and hug and kiss and then proceed to the garage to kneel before Him and remove His shoes.

Shower: Sunday (or other day off if it is changed) and any other day he may request. I will shower Master.

 Public settings: I will not argue or complain.

-I will remain within eyesight of Master unless permission is given to do otherwise and will return promptly.

 Family meals: Breakfast and Dinner- we will all sit down and eat together. It is understood that life happens and it is not always possible but this will be the expected norm. At breakfast we will discuss the ToDo list and plans for the day. At dinner we will do high/low and review the ToDo list and fitness/healthy eating program.

 Bedtime: Children’s -W/we will focus this time on the children and both parents will assist with no cell phones or any other distractions present.

-O/ours -I will kneel before Master and wait for permission to enter the bed or ask for permission if necessary.

 Eating out: no more than 2 meals per week per person.

 Healthy eating: use My Fitness Pal to track fitness and eating habits.

 Fitness: exercise at least three times per week.

 Alcoholic beverages: limited to a max of 2 per week.

 Play: every Sunday evening will be designated as play time.

 -Any time W/we play W/we will follow a standard protocol of kneeling, adding play collar, standing to embrace, and matching breathing.

Orgasm Control

– I am to achieve orgasm ONLY with Master’s permission or at his orders

Punishment

 -Will be given for disrespect or disobedience of any aforementioned guidelines as well as anything else Master may deem fit.

-Will result in full and complete penance for offenses.

-Will always fit the crime.

-will always be executed with full understanding of crimes committed.

  Safety

 Safe words are known but as follows and to be used to notify Master of any immediate issues. “YELLOW” will indicate an approach of maximum tolerance. “RED” will indicate reaching of maximum tolerance. Master knows me well enough that he may be able to help me push through and stretch my limits by pushing past “RED” in certain circumstances. I believe I am unable to continue “XXXXXXX” will indicate a complete stop of all activities.

Section three: Other Relationships

1. Any other relationship cannot cause U/us to sacrifice O/our dynamic.

2. Any other relationship cannot cause U/us to sacrifice O/our career or children.

3. If either feels a “spark”, interest, or any attraction of more than friends, it needs to be shared with spouse prior to sharing with anyone else, including that person. A simple text or phone call with confirmation received will suffice unless #4.

4. If spouse requests further discussion before moving forward, that request will be honored.

5. If contact is instigated by “other,” spouse is to be notified immediately and prior to any response being sent. Again text or phone call with confirmation received will suffice unless #4.

6. Flirty (see A) in person conversation is acceptable without prior consent from spouse, however spouse should be notified right away if this has lead to #3. If this conversation turns sexual (see B) then conversation needs to be put on hold until above can happen.

A. Flirty conversation is defined as plutonic conversation that could be had with anybody for the purpose of gauging connection. Can include discussion of sexual activities as long as not specific to any specific person/persons. I.E. What type of things are you into?

B. Sexual conversation is defined as fantasizing or discussing hypothetical sexual encounters with specific person/persons. I.E. I would love to take you out back and have you blow me.

7. Master has ultimate veto power, however He agrees to use it judiciously in order to not hinder growth. I do not, however, Master recognizes that I have excellent opinions and insight and my recommendations will be heavily considered.

8. Potential partners must be vetted twice as hard as normal. I.E. Read profiles completely, writings, pics, compare and speak to mutual friends…

9. If potential partner is attached in any way that partner must be spoken to and notified of intentions and given approval to proceed prior to engaging. If either refuses – DEAL KILLER.

Section Four: Master’s Creed

I offer the testimony in trust and sincerity.

I am a dominant man.

I am just that.

I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part.

Not because I feel more intelligent or wiser.

I am not dominant because of the strength or the mass of my body.

I am not, nor would I want to be dominant with all women.

Yet to you, I am Master.

I am your Master only after earning your trust.

I embrace your submissiveness.

I have looked into your heart and mind,

And clearly see your desires and passions.

You have thrown away your fears and inhibitions.

You tell me of the needs of your heart and body.

You have given me total access to your soul,

and I accept that responsibility and honor.

Your belief in me gives me courage and direction.

Your strength disperses my doubt.

Your needs and desires encourage

and give purpose to my efforts.

We are not equal.

We are halves of a whole.

We complement each other and make each other complete.

I dominate you only because you have allowed me to,

and when I see you body kneel before me

in my mind and heart,

you are raised above all other women

and all the treasures of the earth.

Within the bounds of our relationship

it is my duty to protect you,

and that you will know, that under my care;

no harm will come to you

as a result of actions taken by Me

or you.

This is my responsibility.

Section Five: Slave’s Pledge

I will do my best to serve my Master.

To strive to overcome feelings of guilt or shame, and all inhibitions that interfere with my capability to serve Him and limit my growth as His slave.

To maintain open and honest communication.

To reveal my thoughts, feelings, and desires without hesitation or embarrassment.

To inform Him of wants or perceived needs, recognizing the He is the sole judge of whether or how these shall be satisfied.

To strive towards maintenance of a positive self-image and development of realistic expectations and goals.

To work with Him to become a happy and self-fulfilled individual.

To work against negative aspects of my ego and my insecurities that would interfere with advancement of these aims.

My surrender as a slave is done with the knowledge that nothing asked of me will demean me as a person, and will in no way diminish my own responsibilities towards making the utmost use of my potential. In recognition of my family obligations, nothing will be required of me that will in any way damage or harm my children, nor interfere with the performance of my duties as a mother or wife.

This I, XXXXXX, do entreat with lucidity and the realization of what this means, both stated and implied, in the conviction that this offer will be understood in the spirit of faith, caring, esteem, devotion, and love in which it is given.

Should either of U/us find that O/our aspirations are not being well served by this agreement, find this commitment too burdensome, or for any reason wish to cancel, E/either may do so by verbal notification to the O/other, in keeping with the consensual nature of this contract. W/we both understand that cancellation means a cessation to the Power Exchange dynamic indicated and implied within this agreement, not a termination of the relationship as friends, lovers, and spouses. Upon cancellation, each of U/us agrees to offer the other His or her reasons and to assess the new needs and situation openly and lovingly.

This agreement shall serve as the basis for our relationship with the intention of furthering self-awareness and exploration, promoting health and happiness, and improving O/our lives.

Section Six: Signatures

This contract is valid from this day XXXXXXXX until cancelled.

I offer my consent as slave to XXXXXXXXXXXXXX under the terms stated above on this, the _______ day of ____________________ in the year ___________.

X________________________________

(Signature of slave)

I offer My acceptance of slavehood by XXXXXXXXX under the terms stated above on this, the ________ day of __________________ in the year ___________.

X________________________________

(Signature of Master)