Full Question: I want to be submissive sexually but equal in day-to-day life. How to find a partner?
Answer:
The term you’re likely going to be using more readily while you search for a partner is “bedroom-only” submissive. And your partner would then be a “bedroom-only” Dominant. This type of relationship is more common than you might think. Many individuals crave a sense of surrender and exploration in their sexual lives while still maintaining autonomy and mutual respect in their daily interactions. It’s all about finding a partner who shares your values and is willing to navigate this dynamic with you.
To find a compatible partner, consider the following tips:
- Be Open and Honest: When getting to know someone, be upfront about your desires and boundaries. This will help you weed out those who aren’t comfortable with your needs.
- Communicate Your Needs: Clearly express your expectations for a balanced dynamic, where you can surrender sexually while maintaining equality in daily life.
- Explore Online Communities: Join online forums, social media groups, and dating platforms that cater to individuals with similar interests. This can help you connect with like-minded people who share your desires.
- Attend BDSM and Kink Events: Attend workshops, conferences, and social gatherings focused on BDSM and kink. These events can provide a safe space to meet potential partners who understand and respect your desires.
Finding a partner who understands and respects your needs takes time and effort. Be patient, and don’t be afraid to communicate your desires and boundaries. With persistence and an open mind, you can find a partner who shares your vision for a balanced and fulfilling relationship.
