Exploring new perspectives within the intimate world of BDSM dynamics can lead to a richer and more fulfilling experience. Today, I propose we embark on a unique journey that intertwines submission with the concept of the Seven Heavenly Virtues. We’ll delve into the history of these virtues, uncovering their origins and significance, and then consider how they can be applied to your submissive journey. Get ready to reveal the idea of virtue-based submission – a pathway that promises profound self-discovery and unbridled joy.
The Origin of the 7 Heavenly Virtues
To understand the virtues, we must travel back through history, where these principles are rooted.
The 5th-century writer Prudentius offered one of the first iterations of the seven heavenly virtues in his poem Psychomachia (“The Contest of the Soul”). In 590 CE, Pope Gregory I revised the list of deadly sins and the virtues.
The ones we know today originate from those Roman Catholic alterations. The 7 Heavenly Virtues – chastity, temperance, charity, diligence, patience, kindness, and humility – were considered guiding principles for leading a virtuous life. Initially aligned with the Seven Deadly Sins – lust, gluttony, greed, sloth, envy, wrath, and pride, these virtues emerged as a counterbalance, offering a moral compass for those seeking a path of righteousness.
Cultivating a life balanced by these virtues was expected to bring goodness to your life and the world.
“Virtue is the moral strength of the will in obeying the dictates of duty.” – Immanual Kant
Applying Virtues to Balance Your Submissive Journey
Now, imagine taking these ancient virtues and infusing them into the world of BDSM and your submission. It’s not about restriction; it’s a method to elevate your experience, creating a foundation of trust, respect, and mutual enjoyment. Each virtue is a unique tool, guiding you through the peaks and valleys of your submissive journey.
These virtues can form the foundation of a healthy, consensual BDSM relationship, fostering trust, respect, and a deeper connection between the dominant and submissive partners.
Remember that the journey is meant to be enjoyable, enlightening, and, above all, consensual. By infusing the 7 Heavenly Virtues into your BDSM dynamic, you’re not just engaging in an intimate dance of power – you’re crafting a masterpiece of trust, respect, and pleasure. So, let the virtuous adventure begin!
Charity
How it can be applied to submission: A submissive’s willingness to give themselves fully to their Dominant, offering their trust, vulnerability, and service with a sense of generosity and selflessness. Discover how selfless giving and unwavering commitment can elevate your role.
Chastity
How it can be applied to submission: Self-control is more than physical restraint – it’s a mental discipline, a conscious choice to embrace control. It might involve following the rules the Dominant sets, embracing periods of denial or restriction, or focusing on mental control and purity of intent. Self-control can deepen the connection between partners, fostering a sense of anticipation and vulnerability.
Diligence
How it can be applied to submission: This virtue may translate into the submissive’s commitment to their role. It involves being attentive to the dominant’s needs, actively participating in scenes or tasks, and continuously striving to improve and learn within the dynamic. Further education and focus on personal growth so that you can offer your service in the best way possible at the right time.
Humility
How it can be applied to submission: Submission inherently involves humility, acknowledging the Dominant’s authority, and embracing a mindset of respect and modesty. Humility isn’t about diminishing oneself but acknowledging the beauty in submission. It also involves the willingness to learn, grow, and accept guidance or correction from the Dominant.
Kindness
How it can be applied to submission: This virtue could be expressed through the submissive’s nurturing nature toward the Dominant. It might involve providing emotional support, being attentive to the Dominant’s well-being, and showing care and empathy in the power dynamic.
Patience
How it can be applied to submission: Submission often requires patience, especially during training or when awaiting instructions. It involves understanding the Dominant’s pace, respecting the process, and staying composed during challenges or periods of waiting. Patience allows the power dynamic to unfold organically and deepens the connection between dominant and submissive.
Temperance
How it can be applied to submission: Manifests in maintaining balance and moderation in submission. It involves knowing one’s limits, communicating them to the Dominant, and ensuring the power exchange remains healthy and respectful. Temperance becomes the cornerstone of your submissive journey, guiding you to discover your limits and navigate the delicate balance of power exchange.