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  • Isolation Struggles
  • jealousy
  • jerk behavior
  • journal decoration
  • journal prompts
  • journal selection
  • journaling
  • journaling benefits
  • journaling habits
  • Journaling in D/s
  • journaling practices
  • journaling resources
  • journaling supplies
  • journaling tips
  • journaling tools
  • journals
  • joy
  • joy of submission
  • judgement
  • kajira
  • kajira lifestyle
  • keeping BDSM private
  • kink academy
  • kink acceptance
  • kink advice
  • kink and alcohol
  • kink and daily life balance
  • kink and disability
  • kink and health
  • kink and intelligence
  • kink and intimacy
  • kink and parenthood
  • kink and relationships
  • kink awareness
  • kink community
  • kink conventions
  • kink curiosity
  • kink curious
  • kink dating approach
  • kink discovery
  • kink during pregnancy
  • kink dynamics
  • kink education
  • kink events
  • kink exploration
  • kink for beginners
  • Kink for well-being
  • kink frenzy
  • kink friendly spaces
  • kink groups
  • kink growth
  • kink identity
  • kink in professional life
  • kink in public
  • kink journey
  • kink literature
  • kink novels
  • kink podcasts
  • kink resources
  • kink safety
  • kink vs vanilla
  • kink-aware doctors
  • kink-friendly doctors
  • kink-friendly therapists
  • kink-friendly therapy
  • kink-positive healthcare
  • kinks
  • kinky cons
  • kinky date night
  • kinky dating
  • kinky friends
  • kinky literature
  • kinky love
  • kinky parenting tips
  • kinky play
  • kinky play on vacation
  • kinky reads
  • kinky rituals
  • kinky road trip
  • kinkycast
  • kitchen cleaning
  • kitchen tips
  • kneeling
  • kneeling alternative
  • kneeling techniques
  • kneeling tips
  • knife play
  • knitting
  • knitting basics
  • knives
  • labels
  • labels and terminology
  • lactation play
  • language barrier
  • language rules in BDSM
  • language skills
  • larger bodied
  • laughter
  • launguage skills
  • LDR
  • ldr advice
  • LDR success
  • LDR survival
  • leaders
  • leadership
  • learned submission
  • learning
  • learning and growth
  • learning curve
  • learning experience
  • learning from mistakes
  • learning in bdsm
  • learning in D/s
  • learning opportunities
  • learning pain processing methods
  • learning styles
  • learning to communicate
  • learning to please
  • learning together
  • leather care
  • leather community
  • leather culture
  • leather families
  • leather fetish
  • leather lifestyle
  • leather protocol
  • legacy
  • legal issues
  • length of play session
  • letting go
  • letting go of the past
  • letting people down gently
  • level 10 life
  • levels of protocol
  • levels of sub space
  • LGBTQ+
  • libido
  • life balance
  • life challenges
  • life changes
  • life goals
  • life lessons from pets
  • life long learning
  • life mission statement
  • life transition
  • lifehacks
  • lifestyle
  • lifestyle adjustment
  • lifestyle changes
  • lifestyle choices
  • lifestyle dating
  • lifestyle events
  • lifestyle insights
  • lifestyle submissives
  • lifestyle transition
  • limits
  • limits and boundaries
  • limits list
  • listening skills
  • listening techniques
  • listening to your Dominant
  • literary influences
  • little dynamics
  • littles
  • littles in modern society
  • littlespace
  • living authentically
  • living D/s
  • living documents
  • living in a BDSM household
  • living the D/s lifestyle
  • living with intention
  • local kink communities
  • long distance play
  • long distance play activities
  • long distance relationships
  • long distance support
  • long distance to in-person
  • long-distance love
  • long-distance play
  • long-distance relationship
  • long-term relationships
  • losing a collar
  • loss
  • loss and grief
  • love
  • love and addiction
  • love and commitment
  • love and lust
  • love and submission
  • love in D/s
  • M/s contract
  • macromanagement
  • maintaining anonymity
  • maintaining connection
  • maintaining connection in LDR
  • maintaining D/s
  • maintaining D/s while ill
  • maintaining harmony
  • maintaining intimacy
  • maintaining long distance
  • maintaining privacy in BDSM
  • maintaining protocol
  • maintaining submission
  • maintaining submissive bliss
  • maintenance spankings
  • making mistakes
  • making your bed
  • male grooming
  • male submission
  • male submissives
  • managing BDSM around roommates
  • managing D/s around family
  • managing different diets
  • managing emotions
  • managing illness
  • managing jealousy
  • managing stress
  • managing sub drop
  • manners
  • manners 101
  • marks
  • marriage
  • marriage advice
  • marriage counseling
  • marriage vs collaring
  • masculinity
  • maslow's hierarchy
  • masochism
  • massage rituals
  • Master/slave dynamics
  • masturbation
  • masturbation control
  • maturity
  • meal ideas
  • meal organization
  • meal planning
  • meal prep strategies
  • meal preparation
  • mediation
  • medical advice
  • medical play
  • meditation
  • meditation monday
  • meditation on love
  • meeting kinksters
  • meeting new people
  • meeting people
  • meeting safety
  • meetups
  • melting points
  • memes
  • memorable moments
  • memories
  • mental conditioning
  • mental health
  • mental health in BDSM
  • mental shift
  • mental thresholds
  • mental wellness
  • mentoring
  • mentorship in bdsm
  • menu planning
  • messy play
  • microblogging tips
  • micromanagement
  • Mid-life Exploration
  • middles
  • mind play
  • mindful submission
  • mindfulness
  • mindset
  • mindset during play
  • mindset shift
  • miracle morning
  • Misconceptions About BDSM
  • misconceptions about sex
  • missing your partner
  • misunderstanding
  • mobile kink
  • monday meditation
  • money management
  • money saving tips
  • monogamy
  • monogamy vs nonmonogamy
  • monopoly
  • mood setting
  • mood swings
  • moral values
  • morality
  • morality and sexuality
  • more experienced submissives
  • morning ritual
  • morning routine
  • motivation
  • motivations in BDSM
  • mourning
  • moving
  • moving abroad
  • moving in together
  • moving on
  • multiple D/s households
  • multiple Dominants
  • multiple partners
  • mummification
  • munch
  • munch directory
  • munch etiquette
  • munch groups
  • munches
  • music
  • mutual pleasure
  • mutual respect
  • mututal respect
  • my little pony
  • myth busting
  • myth debunking
  • mythbusting
  • myths
  • myths about sluts
  • nail care
  • natural cleaning
  • natural high
  • natural pain process
  • nature vs nurture
  • naughty talk
  • naughty texts
  • navigating conversations
  • navigating dom drop
  • navigating munches
  • navigating polyamory
  • navigating power exchange
  • navigating relationship challenges
  • navigating subspace
  • need deficits
  • need to submit
  • needs
  • needs vs wants
  • negative pain management
  • negative responses
  • negative thinking
  • negative thoughts
  • negotiating limits
  • negotiating submission
  • negotiation
  • negotiation skills
  • negotiation techniques
  • nerds and geeks
  • netiquette
  • networking
  • neurological dysfunction
  • new beginnings
  • new Dominant
  • new relationships
  • new to BDSM
  • new year's resolutions
  • newbie resources
  • newbie tips
  • newbies
  • nirvana
  • no limits slavery
  • no orgasms
  • no stupid sex toy questions
  • noise control
  • non-monogamy
  • non-verbal safewords
  • nonjudemental attitude
  • nonjudgemental attitutude
  • nonsexual play
  • nonsexual service
  • normalcy
  • notebook options
  • notebook shopping
  • notebooks
  • novice dominants
  • nurturing a Dominant
  • nurturing friendships
  • obedience
  • objectification
  • observation skills
  • obsession
  • OCD
  • old guard
  • old school
  • online BDSM
  • online BDSM communities
  • online collars
  • online communication
  • online community
  • online conduct
  • online courses
  • online dating
  • online dating sites
  • online dominants
  • online dynamics
  • online etiquette
  • online event
  • online exploration
  • online journaling
  • online learning
  • online mentorship
  • online play
  • online predators
  • online presence
  • online privacy
  • online profile tips
  • online punishment
  • online relationships
  • online safety
  • online shopping
  • online submission
  • online submissives
  • online vs offline BDSM
  • online vs. real-life BDSM
  • open communication
  • open dialog
  • open marriage styles
  • open mindedness
  • open relationships
  • opening up
  • openmindedness
  • openness
  • oral sex
  • organization
  • organizational tools
  • organized life
  • organizing events
  • orgasm control
  • orgasm denial
  • orgasm obedience
  • orgasm on command
  • outdoor kink
  • outdoor play
  • outing a kinkster
  • outing someone
  • outting
  • outting in BDSM
  • over analysis
  • over apologizing
  • overcoming adversity
  • overcoming challenges
  • overcoming failure
  • overcoming fear
  • overcoming fears
  • overcoming guilt
  • overcoming insecurity
  • overcoming limits
  • Overcoming Nervousness
  • overcoming past
  • overcoming social anxiety
  • overthinking
  • overwhelming craving
  • owner/pet dynamics
  • ownership
  • oxytocin
  • oxytocin and bonding
  • oxytocin release
  • pain and pleasure
  • pain and submission
  • pain descriptors
  • pain endurance
  • pain exploration
  • pain management
  • pain play
  • pain play techniques
  • pain processing
  • pain processing series
  • pain sensitivity
  • pain threshold
  • pain tolerance
  • pain types
  • pampering
  • pansexuality
  • parenting
  • parenting challenges
  • parenting in kink
  • parenting stages and kink
  • parenting tips
  • parenting with illness
  • partner care
  • partner compatibility
  • partner support
  • partnership
  • party etiquette
  • party outfits
  • party preparation
  • party protocol
  • party rules
  • passive submission
  • past baggage
  • patience
  • patience and devotion
  • pavlovian conditioning
  • peer relationships
  • people pleasing
  • perception
  • perfection in D/s
  • perfectionism
  • period sex
  • permission
  • persona vs role
  • personal ads
  • personal beliefs
  • personal boundaries
  • personal care
  • personal desires
  • personal development
  • personal discipline
  • personal experience
  • personal expression
  • personal finance
  • personal goals
  • personal grooming
  • personal growth
  • personal hygiene
  • personal identity
  • personal insights
  • personal integrity
  • personal journey
  • personal mantra
  • personal preferences
  • personal presentation
  • personal protocol
  • personal reflections
  • personal responsibility
  • personal safety
  • personal story
  • personal submission
  • personal toys
  • personal wellness
  • personality
  • personality traits
  • personalized D/s
  • personalized service
  • perspective
  • perspectives
  • pervertables
  • pet play
  • pet play safety
  • petitioning
  • photos
  • physical changes
  • physical intimacy
  • physical limits
  • physical submission
  • pick up play
  • planning
  • planning a collaring ceremony
  • play dynamics
  • play experiences
  • play negotiation
  • play parties
  • play partners
  • play party
  • play party essentials
  • play party etiquette
  • play party rules
  • play preparation
  • play recovery
  • play requests
  • play responsibly
  • play safety
  • play session reflection
  • playboy flair
  • playfulness
  • playing in public
  • playing outdoors
  • playlist recommendations
  • playlists
  • playtime
  • playtime soundtrack
  • playtime techniques
  • pleasing a dominant
  • pleasing your dominant
  • pleasure and control
  • pleasure in pain
  • podcast
  • podcasts
  • politeness
  • poly myths
  • poly relationships
  • polyamory
  • polyamory tips
  • pomodoro technique
  • positional service
  • positive affirmations
  • positive change
  • positive habits
  • positive mindset
  • positive pain management
  • positive progress
  • positive reinforcement
  • positive thinking
  • positive waiting
  • post scene care
  • power dynamics
  • power exchange
  • power exchange in sex
  • power exchange styles
  • power play
  • power struggles
  • practical tips
  • pre-play preparation
  • predators
  • predicament bondage
  • pregnancy
  • preparation checklist
  • Preparation for Living Together
  • preparation for submission
  • preparation routine
  • presence
  • pride
  • pride in submission
  • primal instincts
  • primal play
  • primary partner
  • prime directive
  • priorities
  • prioritize health
  • prioritizing goals
  • prioritizing issues
  • privacy
  • privacy in BDSM
  • privacy tips
  • private party
  • proactive service
  • problem solving
  • processing pain
  • productivity
  • profile creation
  • profile writing
  • proper manners
  • protecting identity in kink
  • protecting personal details
  • protocol
  • protocol development
  • protocol dinner
  • psychological states
  • psychological struggles
  • psychology
  • PTSD recovery
  • public behavior
  • public collars
  • public masturbation
  • public party
  • public play
  • public submission
  • public vs private life
  • punishment
  • punishment and reward
  • punishment dynamic
  • punishment methods
  • punishment strategies
  • punishment tools
  • punishment vs Punishment
  • purposeful intention
  • quality time
  • quality vs convenience
  • questioning submission
  • questions
  • quick meals
  • quick reference
  • quiet BDSM play
  • quiet kink play
  • quiet punishment techniques
  • quiet toys
  • quote inspiration
  • quotes for journaling
  • race and BDSM
  • race play
  • racial stigma
  • RACK
  • raw emotion
  • re-entering the scene
  • re-framing
  • reaction vs emotion
  • reactive emotions
  • reactive service
  • reader submissions
  • reading discussion
  • reading tips
  • real life encounters
  • real life vs BDSM
  • real people in kink
  • real talk
  • real-life BDSM
  • real-time BDSM help
  • realistic D/s
  • realistic expectations
  • realities of online D/s
  • realities of submission
  • reality
  • rebuilding dynamics
  • rebuilding faith
  • rebuilding relationships
  • rebuilding trust
  • recharge yourself
  • recognizing burnout
  • recommendations
  • recommended reading
  • reconnecting with submission
  • record keeping
  • recording experience
  • recovery
  • recovery from injury
  • red flags
  • redflags
  • rediscovering submission
  • reference library
  • reflect and grow
  • reflecting on mistakes
  • reflection
  • reflection of dominance
  • reflection on service
  • reflective practice
  • reflective writing
  • refocusing techniques
  • rejecting others
  • rekindling romance
  • rekindling submission
  • relapse prevention
  • Relationship Advice
  • relationship balance
  • relationship boundaries
  • relationship building
  • relationship challenges
  • relationship changes
  • relationship commitment
  • relationship communication
  • relationship compatibility
  • relationship contacts
  • relationship contracts
  • relationship development
  • relationship dynamics
  • relationship enhancement
  • relationship expectations
  • relationship foundation
  • relationship goals
  • relationship growth
  • relationship healing
  • relationship issues
  • relationship labels
  • relationship maintenance
  • relationship milestones
  • relationship needs
  • relationship negotiation
  • relationship preparation
  • relationship protocols
  • relationship red flags
  • relationship reflection
  • relationship rituals
  • relationship rules
  • relationship satisfaction
  • relationship skills
  • relationship strain
  • relationship stress
  • relationship struggles
  • relationship symbols
  • relationship tips
  • relationship tokens
  • relationship tools
  • relationship transition
  • relationship types
  • relationships
  • relationships and stress
  • relationships are work
  • relaxation
  • reliable resources
  • religion and BDSM
  • religious views
  • relocation
  • reminders
  • remote play
  • remote punishments
  • removal of collar
  • renewal
  • repairing clothes
  • repectful questioning
  • resolving disagreements
  • resource library
  • resources
  • respect
  • respect autonomy
  • respectful address
  • respectful communication
  • respectful dialog
  • respectful speech
  • respecting boundaries
  • respecting limits
  • responses to pain
  • responsibilities
  • responsibility
  • responsibility in BDSM
  • responsible parenting
  • responsible submission
  • responsive play
  • restraint
  • returning a collar
  • rights
  • rimming
  • risk and reward
  • risk assessment
  • risk awareness
  • risk management
  • risk mitigation
  • risky play
  • ritual
  • rituals
  • rituals in submission
  • role balance
  • role definitions
  • role development
  • role dynamics
  • role expectation
  • Role Expectations
  • role models
  • role of safewords
  • role play
  • role play ideas
  • role play in BDSM
  • role play scenes
  • role playing
  • role recovery
  • role reinforcement
  • role reversal
  • role signaling
  • roleplay ideas
  • romance
  • romance vs logic
  • romantic D/s
  • romantic expressions
  • romantic gestures
  • rope bondage
  • rope play
  • routine
  • routines
  • rule based relationships
  • rule enforcement
  • rules
  • sadness
  • sadomasochism
  • Safe
  • safe BDSM play
  • safe BDSM practices
  • safe call
  • safe call stories
  • safe calls
  • safe communication space
  • safe meeting
  • safe meeting practices
  • safe play
  • safe play practices
  • safe practices
  • safe sex
  • safe sex practices
  • safe sex supplies
  • safe signals
  • safe words
  • safety
  • safety first
  • safety mantras
  • safety precautions
  • safety tips
  • safeword alternatives
  • safeword etiquette
  • safewords
  • safewords during punishment
  • safewords matter
  • Sane
  • save money on groceries
  • saving money
  • saying no
  • scene analysis
  • scene care
  • scene dynamics
  • scene etiquette
  • scene ideas
  • scene management
  • scene names
  • scene negotiation
  • scene planning
  • scene preparation
  • scene protocol
  • scene recovery
  • scene reflection
  • scene report
  • scene reports
  • scene safety
  • scene setting
  • scene traditions
  • seasonal affective disorder
  • second chances
  • secret relationships
  • secrets
  • seduction
  • seeking closure
  • seeking happiness
  • seeking help
  • seeking release
  • self acceptance
  • self affirmation
  • self aftercare
  • self assessment
  • self awareness
  • self care
  • self compassion
  • self confidence
  • self definition
  • self development
  • self discovery
  • self doubt
  • self empowerment
  • self esteem
  • self expression
  • self forgiveness
  • self help
  • self identity
  • self improvement
  • self love
  • self pain play
  • self preservation
  • self protection
  • self reflection
  • self respect
  • self sabbotage
  • self talk
  • self worth
  • self-acceptance
  • self-care
  • self-collaring
  • self-discovery
  • self-esteem
  • self-exploration
  • self-expression
  • self-improvmeent
  • self-love
  • self-punishment
  • self-reflection
  • self-regulation
  • self-respect
  • self-sufficient dominant
  • selfishness
  • selflessness
  • sensation play
  • sensitivity
  • sensory cues
  • sensory experience
  • sensory overload
  • sensory play
  • sensual bondage
  • sensual hypnosis
  • sensual language
  • separation anxiety
  • service
  • service dynamics
  • service ideas
  • service in BDSM
  • service industry
  • service resources
  • service resume
  • service skills
  • service submission
  • service submissive
  • service training
  • service types
  • service-based play
  • serving food
  • serving while exhausted
  • setting boundaries
  • setting the scene
  • sex advice
  • sex drive mismatch
  • sex play
  • sex tips
  • sex toy care
  • sex toys
  • sexting
  • sexting platforms
  • sexual anatomy
  • sexual arousal
  • sexual availability
  • sexual awakening
  • sexual boundaries
  • sexual chastity
  • sexual communication
  • sexual compatibility
  • sexual control
  • sexual desire
  • sexual discipline
  • sexual dynamics
  • sexual education
  • sexual empowerment
  • sexual energy
  • sexual experience
  • sexual exploration
  • sexual expression
  • sexual fantasy
  • sexual fidelity
  • sexual freedom
  • sexual fulfillment
  • sexual health
  • sexual health tips
  • sexual identity
  • sexual liberation
  • sexual needs
  • sexual orientation
  • sexual play
  • sexual pleasure
  • sexual practice
  • sexual preferences
  • sexual role play
  • sexual satisfaction
  • sexual service
  • sexual submission
  • sexual taboos
  • sexual techniques
  • sexual variety
  • sexual wellness
  • sexuality
  • sexually transmitted infections
  • shame
  • shared knowledge
  • sharing kinks
  • sharing knowledge
  • sharing partners
  • sharing photos online
  • sharing space
  • shave service
  • shaving service
  • shaving supplies
  • shaving tips
  • shibari
  • shopping for a collar
  • shopping tips
  • short-term relationships
  • shortcuts
  • showing respect
  • showing submission
  • shyness
  • sibling submissives
  • side hustle
  • simple living
  • single submissives
  • singlehood and submission
  • situational service
  • size in BDSM
  • skill development
  • skill enhancement
  • skin care
  • skincare tips
  • slash speak
  • slash speech
  • slave
  • slave contracts
  • slave heart
  • slave identity
  • slave journal
  • slave meditation
  • slave mentality
  • slave mindset
  • slave positions
  • slave responsibility
  • slave symbolism
  • slave training
  • slave uniform
  • slave's longing
  • slavehood
  • slavery
  • sleep hygiene
  • slut empowerment
  • SM
  • SM and impact play
  • SMART goals
  • social acceptance
  • social anxiety
  • social connections
  • social etiquette
  • social events
  • social graces
  • social media etiquette
  • social media guidelines
  • social networking safety
  • social protocol
  • social rules in BDSM
  • social secretary
  • social skills
  • social stigman
  • socializing
  • soft limits
  • solo coaching
  • solo submission
  • spanking
  • spanking appeal
  • spanking couples
  • speak up
  • speaking up
  • special favors
  • special moments
  • special positions
  • speech training
  • spice up your sex life
  • spicing up sex
  • spiritual connection
  • spiritual growth
  • spiritual submission
  • sponsor post
  • spontaneity
  • SSC
  • SSC vs RACK
  • standing at attention
  • starting a group
  • starting a journal
  • starting out
  • stay at home submissive
  • stay-at-home submissive
  • stereotypes
  • stereotypes in BDSM
  • stigma
  • stockpile management
  • stopping feelings
  • stress
  • stress and depression
  • stress and submission
  • stress management
  • stress relief
  • strong-willed
  • structure
  • sub drop
  • sub fever
  • sub frenzy
  • sub shaming
  • sub space
  • sub-lending
  • submission
  • submission activities
  • submission and health
  • submission as a gift
  • submission in daily life
  • submission in everyday life
  • submission progression
  • submissive
  • submissive achetypes
  • submissive activities
  • submissive advent
  • submissive advice
  • submissive behavior
  • submissive blogging
  • submissive boundaries
  • submissive break
  • submissive burnout
  • submissive calling
  • submissive challenges
  • submissive community
  • submissive connection
  • submissive development
  • submissive dilemmas
  • submissive eagerness
  • submissive education
  • submissive emotions
  • submissive empowerment
  • submissive engagement
  • submissive ethics
  • submissive etiquette
  • submissive expectations
  • submissive experience
  • submissive exploration
  • submissive feeling
  • submissive frenzy
  • submissive fulfillment
  • submissive growth
  • submissive identity
  • submissive improvement
  • submissive in charge for work
  • submissive initiative
  • submissive insights
  • submissive journaling
  • submissive journey
  • submissive language
  • submissive learning
  • submissive life
  • submissive meditation
  • submissive mental state
  • submissive mentors
  • submissive mindfulness
  • submissive mindset
  • submissive myths
  • submissive nature
  • submissive needs
  • submissive poses
  • submissive positions
  • submissive potential
  • submissive prayer
  • submissive pride
  • submissive questions
  • submissive reflections
  • submissive resources
  • submissive responsibilities
  • submissive resume
  • submissive rights
  • submissive rituals
  • Submissive Role During Tough Times
  • submissive roles
  • submissive roots
  • submissive rules
  • submissive skills
  • submissive speech
  • submissive stories
  • submissive strength in adversity
  • submissive struggles
  • submissive support
  • submissive teaching
  • submissive thoughts
  • submissive tips
  • submissive training
  • submissive traits
  • submissive unity
  • submissive voice
  • submissive vs. slave
  • submissive's dilemma
  • submissiveness
  • submissives
  • subspace
  • subspace exploration
  • substance use
  • subtle kink
  • subtle symbols
  • success in relationships
  • successful relationships
  • sudden illness
  • super ego
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2 Weeks to Better Submissive Positions – Day 4: How to Gracefully Rise From The Floor

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This entry is part 4 of 14 in the series Two Weeks to Better Submissive Positions

The next part of this two week series is about getting up from the floor. You’ve already learned about kneeling, standing at attention and lowering yourself with grace. Stick around, we have a lot to learn. If you’ve ever watched Memoirs of a Geisha you have seen how graceful it can be to rise from the floor, appealing and […]

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2 Weeks to Better Submissive Positions – Day 3: Gracefully Lowering Yourself to the Floor

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This entry is part 3 of 14 in the series Two Weeks to Better Submissive Positions

We have covered standing and kneeling so far in the positions project here at Submissive Guide. Today we will cover going from standing to kneeling in a graceful way. It’s not as easy as you think. First you have to pick out one kneeling posture and one standing posture from the previous posts. This way you know how you are starting

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2 Weeks to Better Submissive Positions – Day 2: Standing at Attention

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This entry is part 2 of 14 in the series Two Weeks to Better Submissive Positions

Today’s challenge in the two week project here at Submissive Guide is all about standing at attention. One of the most common ways you can present yourself as submissive to a Dominant is by the way you stand. You may do it now even though you don’t have any specific rules as to how to stand. Pay

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What is a Play Party?

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When you enter the local BDSM community one of the events you may be exposed to is a play party. A play party is an essentially a party where BDSM play can occur. Groups hold parties as a way to learn and educate on safe play methods, chat about topics and generally hang around. Parties

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A Skill Every Novice Submissive Needs to Master: Guilt Resolution from Mistakes and Punishment

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This entry is part 10 of 17 in the series Discipline and Punishment

Everyone at one time or another is going to go through moments of guilt. Submissives may have added self-guilt when you break a rule or upset your Dominant. These things are going to happen as you develop and grow in your role and your life. It’s hard to believe but no one is perfect. What

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How a Submissive Can Have Two Dominants and Make It Work (Hint: It Takes Communication)

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Today’s guest post is by Aria, a bi poly switch kinkster. So currently I have 2 dominants, Edge and Vice. You would think that to have 2 Doms I would have to be the most submissive woman ever, but I’m a switch. I often call myself a beta-top because I love to co-top with them.

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The Importance of Rules and Structure in D/s Relationships

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This entry is part 31 of 35 in the series Rituals, Rules and Protocol

Submissives all around will identify with one or more of these terms: discipline, obedience, structure, and rules. I’m a submissive that needs structure. With structure can come rules, and that’s how my submission best functions in my dynamic with KnyghtMare. I serve him by actively following the rules that govern the structure of my day.

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Why the Word ‘Training’ Confuses Novice Submissives

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The word ‘training’ is a stumbling block for many novices and experienced submissives alike. The reason for this is that so many define training as the organized learning of behavior and activities in structured sessions or steps and that once complete, your training is complete. Let’s dispel that myth right now. Submissive and slave training

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