Add The Bunny Dip to Your List of Submissive Positions for a Playboy Bunny Flair

How often have you dressed in a sexy corset or other fetishwear, only to experience ‘spillage’ when you bend over to serve your Master a drink? Fun though that might be for your Master, it might be a bit embarrassing for you. An elegant way around this problem is the ‘Bunny Dip’. This is a […]

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How The Honor Notebook Will Help You Focus on The Good in Your D/s Relationship

As submissives we tend to need to be reminded what we are doing to improve our lives and to give credit for success and progress no matter how small we may perceive it. This new project will help correct that I hope. The following questions are to be used as prompts for you to think

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A Mentor is Not Your Dom: Learning How to Connect with Experienced People For Submissive Development

When someone says they have a mentor and that they are learning so much from them I’m happy for them. That is until they start saying that they are having sex with their mentor, or that they play intensely with them. It goes against everything I ever learned about mentors and rubs me wrong and

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You Are Not Going To Hell: My Personal Thoughts on Balancing Christianity and Kink

To be honest I never gave faith much thought when I discovered I was kinky. I had been drifting away from organized religion for years, but when I read on a blog (which I can’t recall now) that someone was having to come to terms with her Christianity and desires for kink/submission it made me

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How Personal Grooming of Your Dominant Builds a Relaxing Daily Routine

Before Bathing Make sure that you have all of your supplies ready for use: Shampoo Conditioner Soap or Body Wash Shaving cream Razor Exfoliating scrub Wash cloth Towel: Find out whether they need one or two. Sometimes females need two as that is one for their body and a second for their hair. After Bathing:

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Age or Experience: What’s More Important in a Dominant?

Age or experience, particularly of the Dominant seems to always been in question no matter where you are. You hear it in forums, at munches and casual gatherings. So much of what we do hinges on that little bit of information. For many submissives that I’m acquainted with, there is no question that experience is important to

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Beginning Domestic Service: Save Money, Time and Sanity with Menu Planning

This is a guest post by danae of Domestic Servitude for this month’s Domestic Pleasure Series. Menu planning can save you money, time and just sanity. I menu plan when I make my grocery list. I start by going through my pantry and freezer and throwing out things that are old, expired or don’t look good/smell good.

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10 Tips to Make Moving In With Your Dominant (or vise-versa) Smooth and Easy

The progress of a serious relationship leads to moving in with the other. Whether in a more traditional format after marriage or a modern stand of whenever the relationship is serious enough for that commitment, deciding to do just that takes preparedness. I want to talk about how to prepare yourself and your home for

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